(02-11-2021 01:38 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: Two things: the way you wrote your original post is confusing in the same way that a double negative is confusing. Sure, it's technically correct but can lead to confusion (which is why I brought up Big's response)
If it was unclear at all (which is a stretch), it was only so to people who read hastily, or poorly. Again, please read the text.
As for double negatives, you mean a sentence like this: "You...didn't say you empathically didn't believe Big to have said something like that"? Not the best sentence, but I took the time to understand it before reacting, and I readily figured it out -- even with the evidently erroneous "empathically".
(02-11-2021 01:38 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: It was not crystal clear what you were trying to say, as it's taken a few posts to do that.
But it was clear: I said
from the outset what while I don't know whether Big has ever commented on infanticide, I presume he's against it. The "few posts" following essentially repeated these words to show that you and Big's reactions were unfounded. The fact that this repetition was required for YOU to understand the original text is your failing, not mine.
(02-11-2021 01:38 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: The other is that, while I see your point about how you don't know that Big has or hasn't said anything, you chose to make a really inflammatory examples as a way to argue to extreme. The risk of doing that is inflaming tensions when a post isn't crystal clear, especially on a forum that people browse during work.
Again, it was clear if you read it. It's not my fault that you and Big read it poorly.
More generally, before latching on to the most accusatory possible interpretation of a post in this forum, it seems reasonable that an intelligent reader would have the perspicacity to (1) read the post again, with care, and (2) presume good faith in the poster -- especially when the poster in question is one who is known to state things fairly precisely, and to be generally a good-faith guy. Yet here, you and Big failed to do EITHER -- and you insist that the fault lies with MY choices rather than your own?
(02-11-2021 01:38 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: Probably best to ere on the side of caution.
By any rational measure, expressly saying that I presume Big is not comfortable with infanticide,
even though I have no idea whether he has ever commented on the subject, IS erring on the side of caution.
By the way, I also took the time to figure out "ere". :)
(02-11-2021 01:38 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: I'm sorry for misinterpreting your statement and appreciate the back and forth - I'll make a revision to the previous post.
Misinterpret you did, but thank you for your apology. It is welcome.