(02-12-2021 11:49 AM)mrbig Wrote: (02-12-2021 10:27 AM)OptimisticOwl Wrote: I asked Big to give his wife's opinion (female OB/Gyn, mother) and pass it on to me. Still waiting. ( I use the term "thing inside them" to avoid using the terms "child" or "baby", which seems to inflame the discussion.)
Apparently you missed me replying with my wife's comments in Post #135. To save you the trouble of scrolling back:
mrsbig Wrote:My wife says the correct nomenclature is embryo or fetus (or other similar terms based on the stage of gestation). She agrees that "child" means after birth and so "unborn child" does not really make sense (even though obviously she and I and others know why people use that term and what you mean by that term).
Please note that I was really only asking my wife as an OBGYN (not as a mom or woman) because my impression of your earlier comments was that you were making strictly science-based argument, and my reply was based on my belief (perhaps incorrect) that you arguments were based on science.
You keep writing that abortion is killing a human. My only point is that I'm not sure you are technically correct (which is more important for science, medicine, and law than it is for discussion around a water cooler or at a coffee shop, as in those cases things such distinctions just become semantics). I am not trying to be hyper-technical if you are just talking around the water cooler. I am trying to be technically correct if you are talking about science, medicine, or the law.
I did miss it. I have several medical crises to various members of my family (not me) happening, and my tie at the computer is often interrupted with phone calls. So sometimes when I come back, maybe I don't go back
far enough.
My realization that a fetus/embryo/child/whatever is a human being came about a few years ago, when a very liberal leftist on another site was arguing with a pro-lifer that an abortion was not the taking of a human life because fetuses/embryos are not human, which led those two to a debate on when it becomes human, and if it is not human, what the heck is it? I thought on this question for a long time. This was way back, but even then I was neutral in the political wars over abortion, having, also after much thought, come to the conclusion I could not wholeheartedly support either side. So my pondering was uninfluenced by wanting to come up with an answer that supported on one political position or another.
what I came up with is exactly what I have been repeating. It must be human, because a scientist testing would conclude it is human. It is early stages of development if a human. Just because these stages have names, it does not mean the subject is not human. There is a stage called "teenager", and while sometimes they may not seem human, they really are.
Then it goes to the question of "killing". To me it is clear that when something, a tree or a weed or a fetus, is growing, and that growth is stopped, that is killing it.
Then it becomes a question of "lawful" killing. We have lots of killings that are defined as lawful in the jurisdiction where they occur. lawful killings are not "murder", which is an unlawful killing, and special legal definition of same.
Run it all together, bake 30 minutes at 400 degrees, and the cake that comes out is that abortion is the lawful killing of a human being. That is my belief. It does not have to be yours. I don't care if you agree with me. But when I have expressed this opinion, I get push back on various parts of the cake. I believe what I believe. We can call this person a fetus or a teenager or a whatever, they are still, IMO, humans.
Thank you for a calm and respectful reply. I hope you will accept mine in the same way. But now I have real world problems to attend to, so I shall leave this site for a while. Might be 2 hours or 2 days, maybe longer, maybe shorter, but I do have serious things to attend to.
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