(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: 1. Did you know before he gave his speech that you were going to be comfortable with your 9 year old listening to what he said? 2. Would you have allowed GWB the same latitude? 3. What if Nancy Pelosi or Newt Gingrich had been elected President? 4. How about Buchanan or Gore? 5. Wouldn't it have made sense to have the Secretary of Defense give a speech to our children about serving the country?? 6. Would we have been okay with that?
1. Yes.
2. Yes.
3. Yes.
4. Yes.
5. No.
6. No.
Re: 5 & 6, I was not (when I was in high school) and I am not now comfortable with the idea of army recruiters going to high schools and recruiting. But it happens. I think it should stop.
I don't see how that relates to the President talking to school children about the importance of school.
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: "The President", regardless of who they are, wields an immense amount of influence. So much so that we established an opportunity for the minority party to deliver a rebuttal to the state of the Union. Does that say NOTHING to us??
It says to me that if the President had said anything that needed rebutting, then it would have happened. The opposition would have rallied, shouted, and screamed and either achieved a similar venue or would have reached out through their own channels.
Wasn't necessary, so didn't happen.
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: The entire purpose of Presidential speeches was to have families sit around the radio... then around the TV... to listen and discuss... and now, the FAMILY is being taken out of the equation, and for some reason, The President wants to speak directly to my children, without me there...
I don't know if there is a general, catch-all "purpose" to Presidential speeches, but I know what the purpose of this one was: to speak to schoolchildren about staying in school. He picked the best possible venue to reach that audience.
As to him talking to your kids without you there, well you were more than welcome to be there in spirit-- there's absolutely no reason you couldn't watch or read his speech and discuss it with your family. (Heck, you probably could've been there in person; I bet the teachers wouldn't have objected to a parent sitting with his kids during the speech, space permitting.)
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: and while he TOLD me it was going to be about education... "he" also told me that Iraq and Vietnam was about making us safe... that the stimulus was about jobs... and that despite having fillibuster-proof control of both houses and the Oval office, that the minority party is the only thing standing in the way of affordable healthcare.
I don't get this fear. Is he really that persuasive that in one short speech he could completely ruin your kids with his lies? It's just not much of a risk -- if he really did go off spouting propaganda, then:
a. Neither he nor other Presidents would've ever again had the opportunity, and
b. The backlash would've been swift and loud, and lasted considerably longer than his speech.
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: Not pointing at Obama, but a socialist would describe a conversion to socialism as "creating jobs for everyone"... NOT as taking away your freedoms. Just because they SAY it is going to be about "x", doesn't mean it is. A 9 year old doesn't know the difference... because socialism sounds just like when mom and dad taught them about "sharing" and being kind to others.
So do you vet everything that's said to your kids in advance? Have all their teachers provided you with verbatim copies of their lessons for your preapproval? If one speech is so concerning, I don't see how you're comfortable in letting your kids be influenced by anyone, much less the same person for roughly 145 days.
There are many, many opportunities at school for your children to be influenced by ideas you don't agree with. Given the transparency (the speech was both broadly televised and available in transcript) involved, this is actually one of the few times you'll have an opportunity to review exactly what they've been presented in school and to correct anything you disagree with.
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: The fact that he DIDN'T say anything controversial doesn't mean he couldn't have... and I believe 100% that had no one said anything, that he would have been more inclined to do so. Even if you disagree with that last comment... you cannot deny that he COULD have, and that he is setting a precedent for others to do so.
You're right on half of your last comment: I can't / won't / wouldn't deny he could have been more controversial. However, I completely deny that he is setting a precedent for others to use such a speech for political purposes. In fact, if you compare to Reagan's speech and Q&A in '88, Obama is in fact setting a precedent of being absolutely apolitical.
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: Are you willing to give that sort of control to someone you didn't vote for, whose policies you don't support and who might want to use that opportunity to speak to the children as an opportunity to influence the country for the next 20 years in a direction you don't agree with?
Yes.
If I have such a fear of the president that I think he can ruin my kids in one speech, then I'm leaving the country. (Which I already did once, but then I came back.)
(09-10-2009 02:09 PM)Hambone10 Wrote: C'mon people... this is a smart group of people... SURELY we're not this naive.
I see you're extremely concerned with what COULD have been said.
Please tell me, what in your mind would be the long term repercussions of the worst-case-scenario most politically influential speech?
And given that he didn't do any politcal inluencing, I just don't get the continued unhappiness.
**PS: All of "my kids" in my response are purely hypothetical. I have no children as of yet.