(12-31-2024 10:36 AM)shere khan Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 10:21 AM)ECUGrad07 Wrote:  This thread is hilarious.

I am turning 41 in April and have been married for 9 years. I hope that my marriage lasts for the rest of my life - but if it doesn't, I am completely unequipped to try this again. I think I'll just follow my favorite football teams around and hang with my old fraternity brothers that never got married.

You got a pecker dont yah?


Healthy attitude. Not based in reality but healthy.

Sure do. However, I would rather stumble into some strange like in my younger years than put in the time and effort for another relationship/marriage.

(12-31-2024 10:44 AM)ECUGrad07 Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 10:36 AM)shere khan Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 10:21 AM)ECUGrad07 Wrote:  This thread is hilarious.

I am turning 41 in April and have been married for 9 years. I hope that my marriage lasts for the rest of my life - but if it doesn't, I am completely unequipped to try this again. I think I'll just follow my favorite football teams around and hang with my old fraternity brothers that never got married.

You got a pecker dont yah?


Healthy attitude. Not based in reality but healthy.

Sure do. However, I would rather stumble into some strange like in my younger years than put in the time and effort for another relationship/marriage.

I hear you,

(12-31-2024 10:44 AM)ECUGrad07 Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 10:36 AM)shere khan Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 10:21 AM)ECUGrad07 Wrote:  This thread is hilarious.

I am turning 41 in April and have been married for 9 years. I hope that my marriage lasts for the rest of my life - but if it doesn't, I am completely unequipped to try this again. I think I'll just follow my favorite football teams around and hang with my old fraternity brothers that never got married.

You got a pecker dont yah?


Healthy attitude. Not based in reality but healthy.

Sure do. However, I would rather stumble into some strange like in my younger years than put in the time and effort for another relationship/marriage.

Well yeah. Sorry misunderstood.

I ain't getting married again if my wife ever leaves.

(12-31-2024 08:52 AM)stinkfist Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 03:05 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:46 AM)GeminiCoog Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:00 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  I'm also wondering is anyone else experiencing what I have the last few years:

I have more 20-25 year old women hit on me and stare at me than any time in my life the last couple of years, even when I was that age and imo far better looking than I am now. Literally more than any other period of my life. I was a fairly attractive young man but now I'm 50 with a bald spot and a belly.

But the last few years it seems like most times I go out in public now I catch young women locking eyes on me for long periods or openly trying to talk or flirt with me. Some of my friends of the same age tell me they've also had an uptick in attention from young women the last few years.

IMO I think its because guys our age have a more masculine look about us and how we carry ourselves compared to the very feminized younger men of their age group (they are still naturally attracted to masculinity), and many of them just have daddy issues and gravitate to older men like us.

I've not been dating or going out with any of them, though its getting more and more tempting lol.

Just wondering is anyone else noticing an increase of attention from girls that are young enough for you to be their dad?

I realize a decent percentage of the board are 65 or older, but for the slightly younger "old" guys here I wonder is anyone else experiencing this recently?

That hasn't happened with me...yet. I hope it never does either. I ain't looking to rob the cradle, if you get what I mean. (Of course, I'm 42 and have quite a bit of hair left on the top of my head, though it's starting to get pretty thin. That said, I also have a belly. I wish I didn't, but I wasn't as active as I should've been when I was in my late 20's and 30's.)

I can't see myself going out with a woman under 30.

And I'm a born again Christian so I would absolutely not be engaging in hook up culture.

took a pic with a 25 year elvira wannabee during halloween 15 mins. after SHE sat down next to me ... TB4E can back up the pic as = 1

no doubt she was smokin' ... however, she was also the same age as my daughter ... internally, I simply can't resolve that as 'acceptable' ... it's just too weird (even for my crazy arse)...

I can still see my 3 year old dancing in the aisles at the Ryman when we took him to see The Oak Ridge boys way back in the early 80's. Man he loved that song.

(12-31-2024 11:19 AM)fsquid Wrote:  I ain't getting married again if my wife ever leaves.

Yeah I've said that twice now.

Oak Ridge Boys are as good as it gets

I do love these threads that chime in on the alpha playground ... if I had to play it again, 'sam', it would have to be with this type of fire in the hole ... of course, they're few between, taken, or worm fodder...




I almost took the plunge with another in Youston ~15 yrs. ago ... unfortunately (well, not in the sack) she was more the Palin doppelganger ... lmmfao...

The last time I had sex with anyone other than my current wife was when I was 56 and foolishly allowed myself to be seduced by a 30 year old casual acquaintance of a relative. Until then I had pretty much lived my life as a quest to see how many women I could bed. I'll tell you what boys, I'm now 68 1/2 and I've been celibate for the past 3 years and I don't miss it. The last time my then g/f, now wife, had sex we both almost ended up in traction. I am so much more comfortable just knowing that this woman who it took almost an entire lifetime to find is my true soulmate and our relationship is built on something other than mere lust.

Having said that it's so very ironic that it turned out this way because the first time we got together 11 years ago it was just supposed to be a casual hookup. In fact we discussed that neither of us were looking for anything other than casual sex. It's funny that we ended up this way because I have been sexually active since I was 14 and have seriously lost count of how many women I've been with while she on the other hand was in a very bad relationship and after her divorce she went nuts with her sexual encounters. We both knew this about each other and considered it a plus for a casual fling.

I no longer care about sex as what we have transcends the physical. I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be saying that. I thank God every day that he brought this amazing woman into my life, especially after the sinful life I've lived. I have no doubt at all in my mind that I'll die with her.

Oh, and the last few months have aged me 10 years so that I now actually look my age. Until I started my radiation treatments I was still buff for a 68 year old. I managed to maintain much of my muscle mass from my extreme gym rat days in my 50's and early 60's and had often been told that I could pass for someone 10 years younger. Great genes I reckon. But there are no 30 year old women giving me the eye any more and I am just fine with that.

(12-31-2024 12:33 PM)stinkfist Wrote:  I do love these threads that chime in on the alpha playground ... if I had to play it again, 'sam', it would have to be with this type of fire in the hole ... of course, they're few between, taken, or worm fodder...




I almost took the plunge with another in Youston ~15 yrs. ago ... unfortunately (well, not in the sack) she was more the Palin doppelganger ... lmmfao...

Your mem banks seem to be fine my brother!

Young women are more obnoxious and aggressive and rude while driving than 18-25 year old men. That's what I've seen. Real quick to cut in and throw the finger.
Watched too much TV and Hollywood movies. Don't realize how vulnerable they would be when they did that to the wrong guy.

(12-31-2024 08:52 AM)stinkfist Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 03:05 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:46 AM)GeminiCoog Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:00 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  I'm also wondering is anyone else experiencing what I have the last few years:

I have more 20-25 year old women hit on me and stare at me than any time in my life the last couple of years, even when I was that age and imo far better looking than I am now. Literally more than any other period of my life. I was a fairly attractive young man but now I'm 50 with a bald spot and a belly.

But the last few years it seems like most times I go out in public now I catch young women locking eyes on me for long periods or openly trying to talk or flirt with me. Some of my friends of the same age tell me they've also had an uptick in attention from young women the last few years.

IMO I think its because guys our age have a more masculine look about us and how we carry ourselves compared to the very feminized younger men of their age group (they are still naturally attracted to masculinity), and many of them just have daddy issues and gravitate to older men like us.

I've not been dating or going out with any of them, though its getting more and more tempting lol.

Just wondering is anyone else noticing an increase of attention from girls that are young enough for you to be their dad?

I realize a decent percentage of the board are 65 or older, but for the slightly younger "old" guys here I wonder is anyone else experiencing this recently?

That hasn't happened with me...yet. I hope it never does either. I ain't looking to rob the cradle, if you get what I mean. (Of course, I'm 42 and have quite a bit of hair left on the top of my head, though it's starting to get pretty thin. That said, I also have a belly. I wish I didn't, but I wasn't as active as I should've been when I was in my late 20's and 30's.)

I can't see myself going out with a woman under 30.

And I'm a born again Christian so I would absolutely not be engaging in hook up culture.

took a pic with a 25 year elvira wannabee during halloween 15 mins. after SHE sat down next to me ... TB4E can back up the pic as = 1

no doubt she was smokin' ... however, she was also the same age as my daughter ... internally, I simply can't resolve that as 'acceptable' ... it's just too weird (even for my crazy arse)...

Sorry for your loss.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/493772550104448

(12-31-2024 02:00 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  I realize a decent percentage of the board are 65 or older, but for the slightly younger "old" guys here I wonder is anyone else experiencing this recently?

Being in the recently "separated but not divorced" segment of the 50+ year olds on here. I'm going to admit. I haven't even looked at what other women are doing when I'm out.

Nor do I really care to... the reason for my marriage ending being the primary part of it, and honestly, I'm just not interested in going through all the steps again anymore (and the singles scene for 50+ here isn't really that fantastic if you're not a regular church goer).

(12-31-2024 08:52 AM)stinkfist Wrote:  took a pic with a 25 year elvira wannabee during halloween 15 mins. after SHE sat down next to me ... TB4E can back up the pic as = 1

no doubt she was smokin' ... however, she was also the same age as my daughter ... internally, I simply can't resolve that as 'acceptable' ... it's just too weird (even for my crazy arse)...

Same here. I can't help but think wow is she adorable and she is an adult lol. I just can't feel comfortable about it though.

(12-31-2024 08:50 AM)Was SoMs Eagle Wrote:  Yeah, all the women old and young are after me. It’s just a burden I bare.

hehehe ... gotta pay for those 'cart girls' ...

(12-31-2024 04:27 PM)DaSaintFan Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:00 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  I realize a decent percentage of the board are 65 or older, but for the slightly younger "old" guys here I wonder is anyone else experiencing this recently?

Being in the recently "separated but not divorced" segment of the 50+ year olds on here. I'm going to admit. I haven't even looked at what other women are doing when I'm out.

Nor do I really care to... the reason for my marriage ending being the primary part of it, and honestly, I'm just not interested in going through all the steps again anymore (and the singles scene for 50+ here isn't really that fantastic if you're not a regular church goer).

man, I hate to hear that and don't blame ya ... I still remember the fuh-mah-lees (rhymes with tamales) in StL .... you're landlocked into another version of German/Pollock coyote if'n ya ain' Catholic ...

@gramsWasANovak

(12-31-2024 03:41 PM)Southaven Wrote:  https://www.facebook.com/reel/493772550104448

Marsha swim team mat'l ... unfortunately for 'bun boy', he couldn't handle the 'entry level' engagement ...

(12-31-2024 03:05 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  And I'm a born again Christian so I would absolutely not be engaging in hook up culture.

Well, I'm in the same boat Eric, and I will simply say this: the majority of them ARE engaging in the hookup culture and have the body counts to prove it.

If you looking for fun, have at it and tell them what I do: "You don't need to be here when I wake up". I'd never seriously date any of these females

(12-31-2024 03:33 PM)Southaven Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 08:52 AM)stinkfist Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 03:05 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:46 AM)GeminiCoog Wrote:  

(12-31-2024 02:00 AM)ericsrevenge76 Wrote:  I'm also wondering is anyone else experiencing what I have the last few years:

I have more 20-25 year old women hit on me and stare at me than any time in my life the last couple of years, even when I was that age and imo far better looking than I am now. Literally more than any other period of my life. I was a fairly attractive young man but now I'm 50 with a bald spot and a belly.

But the last few years it seems like most times I go out in public now I catch young women locking eyes on me for long periods or openly trying to talk or flirt with me. Some of my friends of the same age tell me they've also had an uptick in attention from young women the last few years.

IMO I think its because guys our age have a more masculine look about us and how we carry ourselves compared to the very feminized younger men of their age group (they are still naturally attracted to masculinity), and many of them just have daddy issues and gravitate to older men like us.

I've not been dating or going out with any of them, though its getting more and more tempting lol.

Just wondering is anyone else noticing an increase of attention from girls that are young enough for you to be their dad?

I realize a decent percentage of the board are 65 or older, but for the slightly younger "old" guys here I wonder is anyone else experiencing this recently?

That hasn't happened with me...yet. I hope it never does either. I ain't looking to rob the cradle, if you get what I mean. (Of course, I'm 42 and have quite a bit of hair left on the top of my head, though it's starting to get pretty thin. That said, I also have a belly. I wish I didn't, but I wasn't as active as I should've been when I was in my late 20's and 30's.)

I can't see myself going out with a woman under 30.

And I'm a born again Christian so I would absolutely not be engaging in hook up culture.

took a pic with a 25 year elvira wannabee during halloween 15 mins. after SHE sat down next to me ... TB4E can back up the pic as = 1

no doubt she was smokin' ... however, she was also the same age as my daughter ... internally, I simply can't resolve that as 'acceptable' ... it's just too weird (even for my crazy arse)...

Sorry for your loss.

no bout adout it - that may be .... however, muh 'virtue' is still intact where the 'tact' can be questionable at times ...