(02-18-2017 11:23 AM)JOwl Wrote: (02-18-2017 12:31 AM)Rick Gerlach Wrote: (02-17-2017 06:31 PM)JOwl Wrote: (02-17-2017 04:54 PM)Rick Gerlach Wrote: My point is that the issue is wasted energy.
How he feels about the election is not as important as whether specific administration actions / policies are good, bad or incompetent, or the Administrations explanation for them.
I get that he brings it up. At some point, I'd treat it as a simple statement and move on. It's what we do with people we care about, at any rate. I don't correct people who I know over inconsequential matters.
Make the point once, when he repeats how he feels again, don't give it air play. Move on to important stuff.
You're taking issue with the response, but the original question here was: why does Trump keep bringing this up? Why does he keep making the same false statement?
not sure:
1. He's incompetent, and cannot see how this hurts him.
2. He's stubborn and enjoys fighting.
3. He ornery and knows it upsets people and that energizes him.
4. He knows that every minute spent wasted on a meaningless issue is less time devoted to more important topics (i.e. a perpetual smoke screen.
I'm inclined to think it's a varying combination of 2, 3 and 4.
Actually being right or wrong is not much of an issue to him. It's winning battles.
More than 30 years ago, my first boss asked me the question/statement: "Being right seems to be very important to you."
It was not meant (or ultimately taken) as a compliment.
While there are certainly issues that need to be addressed and bird-dogged . . . every time this specific issue gets addressed, I feel like Trump is just playing a game with these guys, and I think he enjoys getting them worked up about this issue.
I still like to be right. But there is a time and a place for it. And quite often there is a cost that comes with it.
So the President of the United States of America is regularly playing a game where he lies to the media to piss them off, gets a thrill out of their anger, and uses it as a perpetual smokescreen to draw attention away from important issues.
I get that you're not a Trump fan, so presumably you're not in favor of it, but I don't get how you can be so unperturbed by it.
1, I don't think it started as a "lie", it started based on his emotion and how he felt about the election. He looks at a map and sees lots of red, concentrated blue, and a huge upset. Popular margin is mostly California or can be seen that way.
2. He's a powerbroker, not someone who lived in a precise world.! To him, the minutiae is nit-picking and semantics. Regardless of the numbers, it "felt" like a landslide on election night, fair enough?
3. At some point conceding feels like losing to him, and I think we all understand that seems to be something he cannot handle in any form, so he doubles down. It is a weakness, and a big one, but he loves conflict so the cycle feeds itself.
I am unperturbed, because on this issue it is totally meaningless.
When two people are miscommunicating, if both parties really want to get along, they try and understand what the other feels/means not just what they are saying.
The media lean heavily liberal, and they control what we see, so watching this play out, it has the "feel" of a lynch mob, because it comes across as 100 on 1. Of course most of this is Trump's fault. But if the press's goal is to prove how bad/dangerous Trump is, it would be better served focusing on something worthy of indictment. Every president spins things, most are better in clothing their messages in a veneer of facts.
There'are a lot of issues I'm much more interested in then how Trump characterizes his election win.