(08-11-2015 12:50 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: And at the same time, parents need to realize that when you try to control every aspect of your childrens' lives, they will rebel, act out, and eventually start ignoring those rules. Many parents find success by acting in a reasonable manner with their children, and only coming down hard when it is absolutely necessary.
I know kids who were given total freedom and ended up worse off than if they had some structure. And I know kids who were in a house that was very strict about what they could and couldn't do and ended up worse than if they had freedom. Generally, like most things in life, it's all about moderation when raising children (or dealing with countries?).
Just playing devil's advocate with that analogy.
All this is true, but I think we'd all generally agree that parking Russian Nuclear missiles in Cuba or using chemical weapons and invading other countries or trying to acquire nuclear weapons are certainly the sorts of things that warrant being 'grounded'.
I realize that we try and control far more than this, but these were the 'stated' reasons for these specific embargoes.
I think you're actually touching on the issue I'm alluding to. We seem to use legitimate reasons for embargoes, generally supported by much of the world and then we negotiate 'control' of these other aspects in exchange for easing of those sanctions.
i.e. an embargo for nuclear weapons is softened or amended in exchange for human rights improvements or commercial access. Once that door is opened, all negotiations are legitimate.
Unfortunately, rather than just taking away the car keys, when you do it with countries, there are all sorts of times they're allowed to use the car, and for all sorts of purposes... just not CERTAIN purposes. It becomes kind of silly I think, since we really can't ground them.
Like Butters, they are 'ungroundable'.