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PirateTreasureNC · 09-25-2006 07:00 PM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:So I give up officiall on guys and understanding them I never will get understand and now I'm just beyond confused...so I quit.

It works the opposite way as well

..women.. .can't live with them, can't live w/o them LOL 01-lauramac2

09-25-2006 07:42 PM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:So I give up officiall on guys

you realize that will only attract them more....

**blah** · 09-25-2006 07:47 PM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:So I give up officiall on guys

Can you post the pictures? ;-)

BLAKESGIRL · 09-25-2006 08:08 PM

PirateTreasureNC Wrote:
BLAKESGIRL Wrote:So I give up officiall on guys and understanding them I never will get understand and now I'm just beyond confused...so I quit.

It works the opposite way as well

..women.. .can't live with them, can't live w/o them LOL

I understand that....I'm just frustrated w/the fact he goes from getting my number and not calling me to not even bringing up the game today or anything actually straight to let's only talk about school. so I quit.

Tulsaman · 09-25-2006 09:03 PM

don't get mad.

Get [Image: glad_forceflex.jpg]

BLAKESGIRL · 09-25-2006 09:06 PM

Tulsaman Wrote:don't get mad.

Get

LOL! lmfao

Tulsaman · 09-25-2006 09:48 PM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:
Tulsaman Wrote:don't get mad.

Get
LOL! lmfao

ain't i a stinker?

BLAKESGIRL · 09-25-2006 09:50 PM

Well it at least brought a smile to my face...still frustrated but meh what can I say....

Tulsaman · 09-25-2006 09:55 PM

gotta be able to laugh when you loose that you've died in my mind.

BLAKESGIRL · 09-25-2006 10:15 PM

Tulsaman Wrote:gotta be able to laugh when you loose that you've died in my mind.

Oh yea definitely....and it's not so much that I've lost more that every time I thik I understand men they turn and do something 10x more confusing than the last...

Tulsaman · 09-25-2006 10:47 PM

you have to remember this we aren't confusing. You made us this way over millions of years.

rickheel · 09-26-2006 03:59 AM

If YOU are interested in him why dont you ask him out?

BLAKESGIRL · 09-26-2006 05:54 AM

rickheel Wrote:If YOU are interested in him why dont you ask him out?

Ah the same question I've had to answer about 50x so far in the past week...here in lies the dilemna....we don't just work at the same school we're both 4th grade teachers, so I have to work very closely with him on an almost daily basis for the rest of the school year and I don't want things to be awkward so Im more trying to play the let's see what happens game.....I asked him to come to the tailgate at the Terps game Saturday and he said he'd call he didn't (but then again it was end of first quarter til he even arrived in teh stadium)

moloch_322 · 09-26-2006 06:28 AM

Now its starting to sound like a plot from a chick flick. So much drama. lmfao

rickheel · 09-26-2006 09:57 AM

I guess I should have read the thread. If you work that closely, DONT DO IT. Its the old dont dip you wick in the company ink well, if you will. If you dont think you would be picking out curtains with this guy (and how the heck would you know anyway!) let it go.

DrTorch · 09-26-2006 10:18 AM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:
rickheel Wrote:If YOU are interested in him why dont you ask him out?

Ah the same question I've had to answer about 50x so far in the past week...here in lies the dilemna....we don't just work at the same school we're both 4th grade teachers, so I have to work very closely with him on an almost daily basis for the rest of the school year and I don't want things to be awkward so Im more trying to play the let's see what happens game

Ok, fair enough. That may be his concern as well. I've been in that situation, and there is the added mystery of "harassment".

But, you have already figured out the obvious answer: group functions.

Get to know each other socially at group functions. There is less pressure, fewer expectations, and less room for gossip.

If you both think that there is chemistry, you can discuss what happens from there.

But, if he's too much of a pansy (or too caught up in partying w/ the guys) to make it to a group event to get to know you better...then forget him. He's a child.

Terpy · 09-26-2006 10:38 AM

What the hell kind of guy teaches 4th grade anyways? I think I had one male teacher all through elementary school. It just seems like something a well adjusted man wouldnt do...unless he is gay, which would explain everything.

MU ATO · 09-26-2006 10:49 AM

BLAKESGIRL Wrote:Ok so I normally don't do this but I swear to God I don't understand men....

One of my male co-workers at my school yesterday stopped me and was talking to me told me I looked nice today...that part i get it's a good thing but then he saw I had some terp football programs w/me for my kids to read and he was like YOu know I was at the season opener against William and Mary, I almost called you I ahd six tickets and if I didn't fill up a spot i was gonna call you and see if you were up for it....and I was like oh I was there we have season tickets....

Anyway two of my guy friends said that was the hint for me to give him my phone number b/c he doesn't have it I said how do I know he wasn't just saying all of that....anyway so guys what the heck....is that really a hint for me to give him my number?

If we wants you then he should just ask for your number.

Stop being a wussy boy.

**GrayBeard** · 09-26-2006 10:57 AM

MU ATO Wrote:If we wants you then he should just ask for your number.

Stop being a wussy boy.

You have such a way with words!

***SouthGAEagle*** · 09-26-2006 11:21 AM

MU ATO Wrote:Stop being a wussy boy.

"No more girly-men!"

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