(10-25-2023 01:12 PM)UTSAMarineVet09 Wrote: Lock him up and throw away the key... he has no chance of being rehabilitated...
I understand that reaction but as a grandfather that is dealing with a grandchild that is autistic. I see it differently. While the spectrum is wide there are children that should not be in a everyday classroom. But schools are not spending the money needed to teach these children.
When you are dealing with a level 2 or 3 child that is autistic there will be a history of violent outburst. There is no maybes, it's going to take place and some children, often. I don't know if this person is a level 1 (low/mild level autism) or higher but his past and present acts of violent outburst makes me think he's a level 2.
These kids are strong, way stronger than kids their age, can snap into a fit of violent outburst, quickly when they are stimming and someone stops it. In my experience that is when they are most likely to dangerous and not only to other people but themselves also.
I don't know the answer and neither does doctors but if you put a child into a class room with level 2 autism and especially a boy this size, at some point someone is going to get hurt.
When we take our grandchild for his speech classes there's a 10 year old boy there and his mother has bruises on her face, arms, legs, almost every time we see them. This is a loving 10 year old boy, that really doesn't understand everything going on around him, for the most part. Last month, out of the blue, he was stimming (touching, picking up, smelling and licking (textures) everything around him) and someone broke a glass and his mother ran over to move him away from it.
Just like that, at the snap of the fingers, he had blooded her nose and was on top of her, swinging his fist and arms. It took me and two other men to get him off her. The hitting still didn't stop because he turned on himself and started to punch his own face. It stopped just as quick when his beaten mother got into his face eye to eye, telling him it's OK.
I doubt the boy in this article has ever got treatment because it's very hard to get into a speech or PT class. Took over a year for my grandchild and honestly at this point that is about all the help you are going to find in a lot of places. That is basically useless, but still don't want him out of the program so we still take him twice a week. But after a year of that we also went with a private teacher 3 times a week for our 5 year old grandchild and it's like night and day on the things he is being taught and learned. Especially the signing.
The whys and a treatment for why...a long list that is different for most children is just not there. At this point it's basically unknown why these things happen. So I don't think prison is going to be the answer. But someone that large and has shown the violent outbursts....
should never be in a class room full of students and a teacher that was not at least trained on autism. I'm not blaming the teacher, at all. But the school system and their need to get every person in a school....mostly for the dollars they get.
I don't have the answer but this person does need to be locked up getting help. But "help" or understanding it, is rare to find.