(09-05-2018 03:13 PM)AquaRocket Wrote: (09-05-2018 02:43 PM)MotoRocket Wrote: After his performance in the bowl game - you have to wonder if he let loose before that game knowing his career was essentially over at UT. Does anyone know if he received his degree after 5 years on the football team? There are always underlying issues behind drinking excessively - especially when it disrupts critical events in his life/career. It's fixable - but if he has a serious drinking issue, the question is whether he could ever become completely sober and maintain it with the lifestyle that accompanies professional sports. Many have. Many more have not been able to.
Really??? Must be great to have lived life without making a mistake. I believe that a "serious drinking issue" would have been revealed in his many years at UT.
ok - you seem to think a guy doesn't have a drinking problem when he blows a 1.3 while driving up to a carryout to get more beer at 3am? Does that seem like normal behavior to you? You think, at the age of 23 that it is the one and only time he has ever been hammered and he just happened to do get caught when he did it that one time ever. Yeh, that makes logical sense. Don't ever believe that people that have drinking issues will do it with others around. In fact, the thing that stuck out for me was that he was all alone when he was caught. That is not normal behavior. You get drunk, run out of beer and decide to go up and get some more instead of just going to bed. That seems normal?
You might want to have a discussion with a probation officer that has to deal with this stuff all the time and why they put offenders on daily drug and alcohol testing for 3 to 6 months. They want to know if they can go without any alcohol at all for that period of time. A high level of offenders fail to stay clean for that short of a period of time.
The likelihood is that this is not even close to his first offense of drinking and driving - and almost certainly that he has been hammered before. The fact that he did not drive in other situations has nothing to do with it being legal. It is the behavior that raises red flags. People drink too much all the time - but generally never when they are by themselves. We don't know the whole story. Maybe he was with others, they left and he was not ready to end the party. For whatever reason, he got into a car when pretty well hammered and went up to get more to drink. By himself. It in no way implies he is not a good person, only that the symptoms are there to indicate there could be a problem. I said "could"
This could be a wake-up for him - or it could be nothing at all. Time will tell. He better be honest with himself. I was around someone for about a year that had a serious substance abuse problem. They hide it well.
As for your other editorial comments - go screw yourself. I never said I had no problems in life. You made that assessment, not me.