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RE: Somebody gets it
(01-05-2017 01:52 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 12:56 PM)Barrett Wrote:  It takes two to make someone feel embittered. I agree that many liberals take a dim, condescending view of certain swaths of the population. But I also feel that certain swaths of the population also take a dim, condescending view of liberals (effete, godless, ivory tower wimps who have no practical sense, so who are, in effect, stupid but in a different way).

It's also become apparent to me that many in red-state middle-America have a huge insecurity complex. The condescension from some liberals is absolutely real, but I truly believe it's also projected by the purported victims of the condescension, where the antennae are constantly up, looking for any hint of condescension to get p-ssed off about. (For purposes of equal time, I would say that exists as well on the liberal side, looking to be outraged over every perceived slight regarding race, gender, etc. But to the extent conservatives think that some component of liberal outrage is BS and silly, I think it's fair to say that some component of conservative outrage, even when it comes to this perceived condescension, is also silly.)

If my family member needed to have heart surgery, I really wouldn't care if the doctor were a know-it-all, condescending pr-ck to me, so long as I felt he knew what he was doing and cared about his craft. I mean, I wouldn't like it, obviously. But it wouldn't affect me so deeply for me to base any meaningful decisionmaking off of it. First of all, I have some degree of self-confidence, so if the guy (or woman) acted like they were much smarter than I, I'd (a) personally feel that the doctor was wrong in their assessment of me, (b) wouldn't really give a rat's @ss, or maybe even © acknowledge that this person likely is smarter than I am, and feel fine about it. I don't have an inherent entitlement to feel that all my opinions should be cherished by everyone.

Put another way:

If there were 100 people in a classroom, and the professor were to walk in the door and say, "I'm not going to say who, but one of you in this room is a complete idiot," my natural instinct (and I suspect the natural instinct of most of the people on this board) is to assume the professor is talking about someone not me. Call it arrogance if you want. I feel that if there were 100 "middle America" Trump supporters in a classroom, and the professor were to walk in the door and say one of them was a complete idiot, almost all of them would immediately assume the professor was talking about him individually, and then get furious for being singled out in such a condescending manner. And then they'd all vote to get a professor who has no expertise on the course material but who isn't such a snob.

when my sister and i would fight, my mother would say stop it, and if one or both of us tried to blame the other, she would say it takes two to make a fight. Still true.

So what if the classroom had 100 Hillary supporters and the prof walked in and said one of you is an idiot? Would they all assume he was talking about somebody else? That really is the heart of the matter - Clintonites/left assume they are right, so anybody who disagrees with them must be wrong. No respect for the opposing viewpoints, and none for the people who hold them.

personally, I respect Sanders, even thoughI think his followers would not respect me. I took him to be an honest man. But what would his followers say about me when they found I opposed the $15 minimum wage? Would it be respectful? or would they think they had identified the idiot the professor was referring to? Or would they just think I was looking to line my own pocket at the expense of the workers?

To the bolded, the same is true of those on the right. I mean, inherently isn't disagreeing with someone thinking that they are wrong?

The key though, is your next sentence. You can full well think that someone is wrong, but still respect them and their opinion. And the left does not at all have a monopoly on smug self-righteousness where someone does not respect the other's point of view. Please stop trying to suggest that they do.
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(01-05-2017 02:57 PM)Barrett Wrote:  Your mother was, of course, right.

As to your question about 100 Hillary supporters in the classroom, you may be right that all 100 would assume the professor was talking about someone else. And 99 of them would actually be correct! Compare it to the 100 Trump supporters, where 99 would be wrong. But setting that game aside for the moment, the point I am making is that I perceive, in the aftermath of this election, a huge insecurity complex that apparently existed (and exists) among many Americans that, in all honesty, I did not much think about before. Politicians would be wise to be mindful of it, I suppose, if they want to be elected. But what makes me anxious about this phenomenon is the apparent growing popularity of the notion that governmental policies should simply follow the will of the common man--and play to his insecurities about whether his judgment regarding technical subjects is as valuable as those who have studied or who have experience in said subject.

I think you have a point, although the percentages are lower than 99% in either direction.

What you have to understand is that people often develop inferiority complexes based on how they've been treated over time. Liberals understand that (rightly) in terms of civil rights.

When the superiority/inferiority is a function of a different bias (East Coast regionalism for example - - - Rice University deals with the attitude that all the 'good schools' are really on the East Coast, Ivy League, etc.)

Eleanor Roosevelt's maxim about 'no one is able to make you feel inferior without your permission', is undoubtedly true, and I think that's something you've alluded to in your reference to the 'decision' conservatives are making to feel offended/aggrieved, etc.

However, the flip side of the maxim is this: There ARE people, whether consciously by actions and words, or subconsciously by attitudes/condescension, who are very willing to make others feel inferior.

If you are correct that the 99 liberals would all assume that the professor was talking about someone else (hyperbole, I'm sure there are plenty of liberals who have inferiority issues as well), I think you could also extend that thought to read, "and a good portion of them would spend time deciding which of the 99 the professor was obviously talking about, or assume that the idiot was a member of some subset that didn't match up to their own standards of intelligence."

Even subconsciously, the latter attitude is hard to hide.

Frankly, the human race as a whole is pretty adept at looking out for, and identifying, those that we are "better" than.

It would help if we could do two things:

*separate people from belief systems (as most people are not 100% in lock step with any ideology, even one they espouse wholeheartedly - - I'd hazard a guess that every Parliamentarian who considers themselves conservative or liberal can quickly and gladly point out the areas where the are 'moderate' or take issue with the extreme ends of their end of the conservative/liberal spectrum. We're all too darn smart to be extremists, right?)

It gets back to my earlier questions here about what defines Islamophobia. I have no fear of any Muslim I know, and would gladly work with, live next to any one I know. I sincerely value my friendships with them. I willingly send my kids to a school where they interact with people of all faiths and based on class discussions are in a distinct minority. At the same time, the belief system in its original and fundamentalist form is not one I agree with, nor would I want to live in a country that adhered to Muslim law.

In other words, it would help if we didn't assume people are deplorable or elitist just because they are easy for us to label.

* "In as much as it is within your power, be at peace with all people."

I'll leave it to others to identify the author. But while it is not always within our power to be at peace with people, there is almost always a great, great deal that is completely within our power with regard to establishing peaceful relationships individually.
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RE: Somebody gets it
Very good points, Rick. I agree with much of it. That said, I do think there are matters where someone can be truly wrong--as defined by logic, received principles, science, etc.--and it is difficult to not assign some moral agency to it. If someone were to outwardly say they felt that blacks were an inferior race, would it not be difficult to not make a moral judgment about that person?
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RE: Somebody gets it
(01-05-2017 03:15 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 01:52 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  So what if the classroom had 100 Hillary supporters and the prof walked in and said one of you is an idiot? Would they all assume he was talking about somebody else? That really is the heart of the matter - Clintonites/left assume they are right, so anybody who disagrees with them must be wrong. No respect for the opposing viewpoints, and none for the people who hold them.

To the bolded, the same is true of those on the right. I mean, inherently isn't disagreeing with someone thinking that they are wrong?

The key though, is your next sentence. You can full well think that someone is wrong, but still respect them and their opinion. And the left does not at all have a monopoly on smug self-righteousness where someone does not respect the other's point of view. Please stop trying to suggest that they do.

Monopoly? I think we are seeing the reaction of the 99% here.

personally, I have spent the last eight years defending myself from charges of racism whenever I disagreed with anything Obama did or said. When I tried to point out that Trump's "rapists" remark was directed, rightly or wrongly, only at illegals, not all mexicans, I was labeled a xenophobe. Because the story here here is that Trump got elected by appealing to the deplorables, the racist, sexist, xenophobic underclass and if I am not attacking him, I must be with him. Thus he becomes "my guy", and by extension, I must be exactly like him.

Well, I'm mad as hell and I'm not going to take it anymore.

apparently, lots of guys like me.

Trump was never my first choice. More like my 16th. But Hillary was my 75th.

Lots of people chose not to vote for Hillary for a lot of reasons. I crossed her off my list when she did the video thing on Benghazi. But others just chose to stay home, others chose to try Trump, others went in other directions.

so stop calling me deplorable if I don't fall in line. Stop refering to meas a bitter clinger, or as some lesser being with limited understanding. hard to get my vote when you despise me.

JMHO.
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Let me just say this, and I think this applies when either a Democrat wins or a Republican wins. Winning doesn't mean one is right or better--morally, factually, whatever. Anyone who has read history knows this.

Unless we are talking purely about the game of political strategy, winning doesn't prove anything. The passage of Obamacare doesn't mean Obamacare is correct, or proper, or just, or virtuous. I believe Ted Cruz would agree with that statement.

By the same token, the fact that a certain swath of voters who felt they were being condescended to by Democrats contributed to the victory of Trump doesn't mean that those voters' views are necessarily correct, proper, just, or virtuous. It doesn't vindicate their worldview. And it doesn't mean that the "right" or virtuous result occurred that is in the best interests of our nation.

Surely we agree that xenophobes and racists and clingers do exist in this country. Surely such a creature is not purely the product of liberal imagination. I don't think everyone who voted for Trump falls into that category, obviously. But yelling "Scoreboard" when it comes to the election doesn't somehow prove that those clingers aren't clingers or that those xenophobes aren't xenophobes. Or that Trump isn't profoundly unfit for the presidency.

There was a Longhorn fan who used to come onto this Board years ago, I think, who would accuse Rice fans of hating UT more than they love Rice. (Is my memory correct on this? I swear this was a thing.) Anyway, Optimistic, do you think some people who were "mad as hell and not going to take it anymore" acted in this election in a way that showed that they hated being condescended to by coastal elites more than they loved their country? If not, then I don't want to hear anymore about how p-ssed off these voters were. I want to hear how they truly believed that Trump was better for the country than Hillary. Even if I might disagree with their reasons, I can at least believe that their framework for selecting a leader was in good faith and legitimate, and not just born out of some temper tantrum over hurt feelings.
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(01-05-2017 03:41 PM)Barrett Wrote:  Very good points, Rick. I agree with much of it. That said, I do think there are matters where someone can be truly wrong--as defined by logic, received principles, science, etc.--and it is difficult to not assign some moral agency to it. If someone were to outwardly say they felt that blacks were an inferior race, would it not be difficult to not make a moral judgment about that person?

Depends.

Why do they believe that? In some cases, the emotion/reaction might be pity. Someone who has been brought up in an environment that drills home a false belief can be a victim as well.

Did they develop that conclusion on their own?

How did they ACT on that belief? I oppose the death penalty on moral grounds, but reading Dylan Roof's statements about lacking remorse and a description of his murders, it's hard not to want to see it imposed.

If someone believes something you feel is wrong or in error, but in their actions towards people does the opposite, i.e., treats individuals fairly and with respect and/or compassion, are they deplorable if their beliefs are based on long-standing upbringing?

During the Civil War era, the South was full of people who believed things about race that today we know are incorrect and wrong. It was the culture and was indoctrinated. Some people believed wrongly, but still treated people fairly, some fought against slavery (if you think every one in the north believed in equality of the races, even those who fought slavery, you'd be wrong.)

What you believe is important, but ultimately that's between you and God (or you and you, if that offends anyone). Freedom of conscience is a fundamental human right.

With regard to treatment of others, what you say is even more important than what you believe.

Ultimately, what you do is even more important than what you say.
(As an off the cuff example, I may say that from a gut level, I want to see Dylan Roof get the death penalty. If I, due to moral conscience, vote to abolish the death penalty, or as a governor, grant clemency, my actions outweigh my stated feelings).

"Bad" people get where they are in life through a process. Some of that is on them, no doubt. I believe in free will. But expecting everyone to escape their environment unscathed, on their own, is wishful thinking.

And "wrong" beliefs, if they aren't accompanied by wrong actions, and if their words aren't directed at individuals or used to hurt others, are effectively just "wrong" beliefs.

Gene Hackman starred in two movies, in very different roles, but in both there were points where the concept of culturally engrained racism was examined.

In "Mississippi Burning", he was the Federal Marshal with southern roots who told the story of his father, a poor sharecropper, who he believed poisoned the mule of a neighboring black sharecropper who had just bought the animal to help him on his farm. He was attempting to explain how poverty drives people to act horribly, because no one wants to believe that they aren't 'better than someone' (paraphrased, because the actual phrase used was terrible). He wasn't justifying the crime, but was trying to explain to the northern-raised Marshal he was working with, that poverty wasn't just a blight on the black people they were down there to protect.

In "The Chamber", he played a bigot, on death row for a hate crime of which he had, at a minimum, foreknowledge, but didn't have the capacity to carry out on his own (and a crime that apparently he didn't expect to physically have victims). During the movie, it was revealed that he had been witness to a public lynching at a very young age (10, 12?). There's a lot of plot development, and ultimately there's obviously some remorse, as he turns in the ringleaders (25+ years late) . . . . shortly before he was executed.

The movie has one scene that evokes a sense of pity for the character for me.

Shortly before he is executed, he tells the black guard who has been around him often for years, and who has treated him fairly and with some levels of kindness or decency - - "you know, when I say the things I do about the races, I don't mean you."

On an individual basis, he could see that his beliefs were wrong. In the context of his upbringing, it was not a backhanded compliment, it was sincere at the basic level that he could muster. That scene probably angered some people. But for me, the sadness that the indoctrination and cultural racism of the era he grew up in had ruined his life, when he had the capacity within him for better, made me feel pity for the character.

Please don't take this post to mean that I think that what a person believes is unimportant. I believe it to be of significant importance.

And don't take this to mean that bigotry and racism are ever acceptable. They are not.

But ultimately, a person's beliefs, abstract, theoretical or otherwise, are not as important as what they say and do, to, or for, other people.
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(01-05-2017 04:40 PM)Barrett Wrote:  Let me just say this, and I think this applies when either a Democrat wins or a Republican wins. Winning doesn't mean one is right or better--morally, factually, whatever. Anyone who has read history knows this.

Unless we are talking purely about the game of political strategy, winning doesn't prove anything. The passage of Obamacare doesn't mean Obamacare is correct, or proper, or just, or virtuous. I believe Ted Cruz would agree with that statement.

By the same token, the fact that a certain swath of voters who felt they were being condescended to by Democrats contributed to the victory of Trump doesn't mean that those voters' views are necessarily correct, proper, just, or virtuous. It doesn't vindicate their worldview. And it doesn't mean that the "right" or virtuous result occurred that is in the best interests of our nation.

Surely we agree that xenophobes and racists and clingers do exist in this country. Surely such a creature is not purely the product of liberal imagination. I don't think everyone who voted for Trump falls into that category, obviously. But yelling "Scoreboard" when it comes to the election doesn't somehow prove that those clingers aren't clingers or that those xenophobes aren't xenophobes. Or that Trump isn't profoundly unfit for the presidency.

There was a Longhorn fan who used to come onto this Board years ago, I think, who would accuse Rice fans of hating UT more than they love Rice. (Is my memory correct on this? I swear this was a thing.) Anyway, Optimistic, do you think some people who were "mad as hell and not going to take it anymore" acted in this election in a way that showed that they hated being condescended to by coastal elites more than they loved their country? If not, then I don't want to hear anymore about how p-ssed off these voters were. I want to hear how they truly believed that Trump was better for the country than Hillary. Even if I might disagree with their reasons, I can at least believe that their framework for selecting a leader was in good faith and legitimate, and not just born out of some temper tantrum over hurt feelings.

I will consider my words carefully here. I think most Trump voters, the vast majority, think he is a better choice for the country and its future. Those mostly encompass those who think the Democrats and their programs are worse for the country.

But I think many have the same anger i feel. it didn't decide their vote. It didn't decide mine. Maybe for some it was a last straw sort of thing. One has to ask why so many Obama voters became Trump voters. Most of the people who shifted are those that the Democrats hold in low esteem - non college educated working class whites. Did they shift because they saw more promise in Trump, or because they were tired of being insulted and ignored by the Dems? JMHO, but I think far and away the former. A lot of them probably saw the choice as More of the Same vs. Something different. But they switched despite the propaganda saying Trump supported were "deplorables", But the insults and demeaning could not help, and may in some cases have weighted them toward changing.

I didn't vote for Trump at all, but a lot of the reasons I would not likely support the Dem candidate was the perceived arrogance and disdain. Biden, Warren, O'Malley, etc - all show this to some degree,and Hillary most of all. The only Dem candidate I could consider was Webb, among the four who ran, and he was given short shrift by his party. One percent. Has it been Webb v. Trump, I might have had to make a hard decision. Might have gone democrat for only the second time since 1976. But the Dems saved me the trouble.

Lad seems to think I think the Dems have a monopoly on arrogance. Both sides think they are right. But my impression is that when the conservatives think you are wrong, they think you are just wrong. When the left thinks you are wrong, it is usually because you are a racist brute with hunting dogs on the front porch.

Did the Dems arrogance and condescension tip the election? maybe. They only needed to alienate 6K people in Wisconsin, for example. But it is a mistake to attribute people's votes to just one factor.

I just know a lot of people who are tired of being labeled racist, sexist, hateful pigs. But most of them got that label just by being Republicans to start with.

It's a factor, but not not usually THE factor that determines how people vote. It takes more than one log to make a campfire. For some this may be a twig, for some a branch, but when the fire is started, it all burns together.
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But UT was my second choice school so I do not hate it. I just love Rice more.

(01-05-2017 04:40 PM)Barrett Wrote:  Let me just say this, and I think this applies when either a Democrat wins or a Republican wins. Winning doesn't mean one is right or better--morally, factually, whatever. Anyone who has read history knows this.

Unless we are talking purely about the game of political strategy, winning doesn't prove anything. The passage of Obamacare doesn't mean Obamacare is correct, or proper, or just, or virtuous. I believe Ted Cruz would agree with that statement.

By the same token, the fact that a certain swath of voters who felt they were being condescended to by Democrats contributed to the victory of Trump doesn't mean that those voters' views are necessarily correct, proper, just, or virtuous. It doesn't vindicate their worldview. And it doesn't mean that the "right" or virtuous result occurred that is in the best interests of our nation.

Surely we agree that xenophobes and racists and clingers do exist in this country. Surely such a creature is not purely the product of liberal imagination. I don't think everyone who voted for Trump falls into that category, obviously. But yelling "Scoreboard" when it comes to the election doesn't somehow prove that those clingers aren't clingers or that those xenophobes aren't xenophobes. Or that Trump isn't profoundly unfit for the presidency.

There was a Longhorn fan who used to come onto this Board years ago, I think, who would accuse Rice fans of hating UT more than they love Rice. (Is my memory correct on this? I swear this was a thing.) Anyway, Optimistic, do you think some people who were "mad as hell and not going to take it anymore" acted in this election in a way that showed that they hated being condescended to by coastal elites more than they loved their country? If not, then I don't want to hear anymore about how p-ssed off these voters were. I want to hear how they truly believed that Trump was better for the country than Hillary. Even if I might disagree with their reasons, I can at least believe that their framework for selecting a leader was in good faith and legitimate, and not just born out of some temper tantrum over hurt feelings.
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(01-05-2017 06:21 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  It's a factor, but not not usually THE factor that determines how people vote. It takes more than one log to make a campfire. For some this may be a twig, for some a branch, but when the fire is started, it all burns together.

Yeah, I think I understand what you're saying here. I just got the impression in this thread and others that perceived liberal condescension was a bigger log--maybe even the biggest log--in the campfire for a large number of Trump supporters. I would guess that, for some, that was indeed the case. I would assume, consistent with what you're saying, that for many it was not.
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(01-06-2017 12:54 PM)Barrett Wrote:  
(01-05-2017 06:21 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  It's a factor, but not not usually THE factor that determines how people vote. It takes more than one log to make a campfire. For some this may be a twig, for some a branch, but when the fire is started, it all burns together.
Yeah, I think I understand what you're saying here. I just got the impression in this thread and others that perceived liberal condescension was a bigger log--maybe even the biggest log--in the campfire for a large number of Trump supporters. I would guess that, for some, that was indeed the case. I would assume, consistent with what you're saying, that for many it was not.

Most of the states that Trump carried have been reliably republican for decades. Just as most of the states that Hillary carried have been reliably democrat for decades. I doubt if there's much more than the D or R that mattered in most of them.

In the swing states that went for Trump, the demographics are such that it would be a reasonable assumption that the smug, arrogant, condescension of the elites did play a significant role.

Moreover, I don't think those elites are making many friends with their smug, arrogant, condescending post-election responses.
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(01-04-2017 05:17 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 04:53 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 01:36 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  And so when we brand their views as illegitimate, "when we mock them at every turn, and treat them with contempt, we do no one any good."

Celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain has an idea of who to blame for Donald Trump's presidential victory: people like him. "The utter contempt with which privileged Eastern liberals such as myself discuss red-state, gun-country, working-class America as ridiculous and morons and rubes is largely responsible for the upswell of rage and contempt and desire to pull down the temple that we're seeing now," he says in a new interview with Reason.

Read more: http://b100wobb.iheart.com/articles/nati...z4Uosv4800

The Democrats need to change their attitude toward Middle america: no more "bitter clingers", "deplorables", or "we just need to explain it better".

I agree with Bourdain's criticism of many on the left, but there are just as many on the right who hold inaccurate and just as judgmental views as those on the right. I mean, how often does painting with a broad brush actually work?

How about both parties change their attitudes towards the other? The creation of the "others" is the biggest problem and is not an issue associated with just one of the major political parties. We hold the views of those "other" people in contempt far too often and far too regularly we assume what the "other" is thinking and or doing, and forget that they are complex creatures who have nuanced opinions that don't always fit inside of a nice box.

There was a great TED Radio Hour with segments that focused on this topic and reconciliation: http://www.npr.org/programs/ted-radio-ho...2016-12-16

OO, since you seem interested in this idea of reconciling with the other side, give it a listen and let me know what you think.

Couldn't listen yet, but...


I would like to get back to bipartisanship, with the party in power working with the loyal opposition. But simce December 2000 at leadt, maybe before, it has turned in a tit for tat spiral. Neither side thinks highly of the other [i] as people[/].

The right thinks of the left as ivory tower dreamers who think they know it all, the left think ofthe right as boorish racists who are polluting the gene pool. something's got to give, or we will polarize further, perhaps into the Eloi and Morlocks.

when I am in a place to listen to the link, I will.

OO, did you take a chance to listen to the podcast?
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(01-06-2017 02:57 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 05:17 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 04:53 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 01:36 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  And so when we brand their views as illegitimate, "when we mock them at every turn, and treat them with contempt, we do no one any good."

Celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain has an idea of who to blame for Donald Trump's presidential victory: people like him. "The utter contempt with which privileged Eastern liberals such as myself discuss red-state, gun-country, working-class America as ridiculous and morons and rubes is largely responsible for the upswell of rage and contempt and desire to pull down the temple that we're seeing now," he says in a new interview with Reason.

Read more: http://b100wobb.iheart.com/articles/nati...z4Uosv4800

The Democrats need to change their attitude toward Middle america: no more "bitter clingers", "deplorables", or "we just need to explain it better".

I agree with Bourdain's criticism of many on the left, but there are just as many on the right who hold inaccurate and just as judgmental views as those on the right. I mean, how often does painting with a broad brush actually work?

How about both parties change their attitudes towards the other? The creation of the "others" is the biggest problem and is not an issue associated with just one of the major political parties. We hold the views of those "other" people in contempt far too often and far too regularly we assume what the "other" is thinking and or doing, and forget that they are complex creatures who have nuanced opinions that don't always fit inside of a nice box.

There was a great TED Radio Hour with segments that focused on this topic and reconciliation: http://www.npr.org/programs/ted-radio-ho...2016-12-16

OO, since you seem interested in this idea of reconciling with the other side, give it a listen and let me know what you think.

Couldn't listen yet, but...


I would like to get back to bipartisanship, with the party in power working with the loyal opposition. But simce December 2000 at leadt, maybe before, it has turned in a tit for tat spiral. Neither side thinks highly of the other [i] as people[/].

The right thinks of the left as ivory tower dreamers who think they know it all, the left think ofthe right as boorish racists who are polluting the gene pool. something's got to give, or we will polarize further, perhaps into the Eloi and Morlocks.

when I am in a place to listen to the link, I will.

OO, did you take a chance to listen to the podcast?

Not yet. What is in it that you think will sway me? Save me a little time.
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(01-06-2017 07:11 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 02:57 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 05:17 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 04:53 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  
(01-04-2017 01:36 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote:  And so when we brand their views as illegitimate, "when we mock them at every turn, and treat them with contempt, we do no one any good."

Celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain has an idea of who to blame for Donald Trump's presidential victory: people like him. "The utter contempt with which privileged Eastern liberals such as myself discuss red-state, gun-country, working-class America as ridiculous and morons and rubes is largely responsible for the upswell of rage and contempt and desire to pull down the temple that we're seeing now," he says in a new interview with Reason.

Read more: http://b100wobb.iheart.com/articles/nati...z4Uosv4800

The Democrats need to change their attitude toward Middle america: no more "bitter clingers", "deplorables", or "we just need to explain it better".

I agree with Bourdain's criticism of many on the left, but there are just as many on the right who hold inaccurate and just as judgmental views as those on the right. I mean, how often does painting with a broad brush actually work?

How about both parties change their attitudes towards the other? The creation of the "others" is the biggest problem and is not an issue associated with just one of the major political parties. We hold the views of those "other" people in contempt far too often and far too regularly we assume what the "other" is thinking and or doing, and forget that they are complex creatures who have nuanced opinions that don't always fit inside of a nice box.

There was a great TED Radio Hour with segments that focused on this topic and reconciliation: http://www.npr.org/programs/ted-radio-ho...2016-12-16

OO, since you seem interested in this idea of reconciling with the other side, give it a listen and let me know what you think.

Couldn't listen yet, but...


I would like to get back to bipartisanship, with the party in power working with the loyal opposition. But simce December 2000 at leadt, maybe before, it has turned in a tit for tat spiral. Neither side thinks highly of the other [i] as people[/].

The right thinks of the left as ivory tower dreamers who think they know it all, the left think ofthe right as boorish racists who are polluting the gene pool. something's got to give, or we will polarize further, perhaps into the Eloi and Morlocks.

when I am in a place to listen to the link, I will.

OO, did you take a chance to listen to the podcast?

Not yet. What is in it that you think will sway me? Save me a little time.

I don't think there is anything in it to sway you (and I'm not sure what I would be trying to sway you from). It was just very topical and thought you would be interested in what the various speakers talked about.
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(01-06-2017 07:35 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  I don't think there is anything in it to sway you (and I'm not sure what I would be trying to sway you from). It was just very topical and thought you would be interested in what the various speakers talked about.

I did listen.

In a way, I think it's kind of a microcosm of the problem. Those who lean left will hear it and think, "What a compelling narrative." Those who voted for Trump will listen to it and think, "What a crock of s***." We're that far apart.

We need some kind of leader who can bridge that gap. Blasting those who support Trump with a steady barrage of "xenophobe, homophobe, racist, misogynist" rhetoric is not going to bridge any gaps.

As I have said repeatedly, Hillary lost the electoral vote because, in too many key states, middle America got tired of smug, arrogant, condescending elites pissing on their legs and telling them it was raining. More smug, arrogant condescension is not the way for those elites to bridge the gap with middle America.

Exchanges like (and I'm paraphrasing here), "I try to visit conservative blogs" followed by "How do you get past the racism and misogyny and xenophobia" make the problem worse not better. I'm surprised that those on the left are too tone deaf to realize just how off-putting the sort of stuff is.
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(01-06-2017 07:48 PM)Owl 69/70/75 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 07:35 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  I don't think there is anything in it to sway you (and I'm not sure what I would be trying to sway you from). It was just very topical and thought you would be interested in what the various speakers talked about.

I did listen.

In a way, I think it's kind of a microcosm of the problem. Those who lean left will hear it and think, "What a compelling narrative." Those who voted for Trump will listen to it and think, "What a crock of s***." We're that far apart.

We need some kind of leader who can bridge that gap. Blasting those who support Trump with a steady barrage of "xenophobe, homophobe, racist, misogynist" rhetoric is not going to bridge any gaps.

As I have said repeatedly, Hillary lost the electoral vote because, in too many key states, middle America got tired of smug, arrogant, condescending elites pissing on their legs and telling them it was raining. More smug, arrogant condescension is not the way for those elites to bridge the gap with middle America.

Exchanges like (and I'm paraphrasing here), "I try to visit conservative blogs" followed by "How do you get past the racism and misogyny and xenophobia" make the problem worse not better. I'm surprised that those on the left are too tone deaf to realize just how off-putting the sort of stuff is.

If that's all you got out of that Ted Radio Hour, you either didn't listen to it or you tried hard to miss what is probably the biggest message - that those who are different or have different views than us almost always aren't the caricature that we think they are.
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(01-06-2017 10:47 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  If that's all you got out of that Ted Radio Hour, you either didn't listen to it or you tried hard to miss what is probably the biggest message - that those who are different or have different views than us almost always aren't the caricature that we think they are.

No, I get that message implicitly without having to listen to that audio.

The problem to which the left is proving incredibly tone deaf is that you can't run around spouting, "racist, sexist, xenophobe, homophobe, misogynist," at anyone who disagrees with you, and somehow expect everybody to come together. That's exactly the point I'm trying to make. You hear the message you recite. But it's in the middle of hurling the very caricatures that you supposedly dislike. And that's what those who disagree with you hear.

If you expect to build any kind of consensus, you need to drop the frankly hateful rhetoric. The exchange I paraphrased is the point at which that conversation lost any and every Trump supporter who might have listened.

Decrying caricatures in a conversation in which the, "racist, sexist, misogynist, homophobe, xenophobe," caricatures get expressly bandied about is not the way to deal with the problem.

Instead of, "I try to visit conservative blogs," followed by, "How do you get past the racism and misogyny and xenophobia," it needs to be, "I try to visit conservative blogs," followed by, "and I find a lot of intelligent, rational people, who raise some good points and offer some interesting ideas that we should probably consider." Until there is at least that level of mutual respect (and it goes both ways, I'm just including one side because that was what was in the audio), we aren't going to get anywhere but more polarized.
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(01-07-2017 03:04 AM)Owl 69/70/75 Wrote:  
(01-06-2017 10:47 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  If that's all you got out of that Ted Radio Hour, you either didn't listen to it or you tried hard to miss what is probably the biggest message - that those who are different or have different views than us almost always aren't the caricature that we think they are.

No, I get that message implicitly without having to listen to that audio.

The problem to which the left is proving incredibly tone deaf is that you can't run around spouting, "racist, sexist, xenophobe, homophobe, misogynist," at anyone who disagrees with you, and somehow expect everybody to come together. That's exactly the point I'm trying to make. You hear the message you recite. But it's in the middle of hurling the very caricatures that you supposedly dislike. And that's what those who disagree with you hear.

If you expect to build any kind of consensus, you need to drop the frankly hateful rhetoric. The exchange I paraphrased is the point at which that conversation lost any and every Trump supporter who might have listened.

Decrying caricatures in a conversation in which the, "racist, sexist, misogynist, homophobe, xenophobe," caricatures get expressly bandied about is not the way to deal with the problem.

Instead of, "I try to visit conservative blogs," followed by, "How do you get past the racism and misogyny and xenophobia," it needs to be, "I try to visit conservative blogs," followed by, "and I find a lot of intelligent, rational people, who raise some good points and offer some interesting ideas that we should probably consider." Until there is at least that level of mutual respect (and it goes both ways, I'm just including one side because that was what was in the audio), we aren't going to get anywhere but more polarized.

So you didn't actually listen to the podcast but somehow felt you understood all of the speeches well enough to draw a conclusion about what it was about?
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(01-07-2017 08:33 AM)RiceLad15 Wrote:  So you didn't actually listen to the podcast but somehow felt you understood all of the speeches well enough to draw a conclusion about what it was about?

Nope, not even remotely close. Read what I wrote.
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69, is it fair to say that liberal condescension (perceived and/or real) was one of the biggest logs in your campfire? You are beating that drum pretty loudly in this thread.

Put another way, let me ask you this: if liberals were not condescending to you, and the policy differences between Hillary and Trump were what they were, would you have favored Trump over Hillary? Or Hillary over Trump? (Before you say Trump wasn't your first choice among Republicans, a modern presidential election, for all practical purposes, is zero-sum: a vote against one person operates as a vote for the other.)
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(01-07-2017 09:44 AM)Barrett Wrote:  69, is it fair to say that liberal condescension (perceived and/or real) was one of the biggest logs in your campfire?

No.
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