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Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
Found this article when researching after Bernie Sanders has come under some fire for writing that women fantasize about rape (of course you have to dig beyond the MSM to find it). It actually turns out Sanders is correct.
Quote:Some women have fantasies of being forced into sex. At first glance, rape fantasies make no sense. Why fantasize about something that in real life would be traumatic, repugnant, and life-threatening?
But on closer examination, such fantasies are not unusual. Many men daydream about getting the girl by rescuing her from a dangerous situation--without the slightest wish to confront armed thugs, or be trapped in a fire on the 23rd floor.
Fantasies allow us to "experience" the outer limits of our imaginations safely, with no risk--and for some people, that includes fantasies of coerced sex. In fantasy everything is permitted and nothing is wrong.
But rape fantasies raise thorny issues. Many women who have them can't shake the feeling that they are abnormal or perverted.
From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women's rape fantasies have been published. They show that about four in 10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month. Actual prevalence of rape fantasies is probably higher because women may not feel comfortable admitting them.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all...-they-mean
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
Those fantasies mean nothing more than the fact absurd amounts of men watch porn featuring girls who have just turned 18 or are dressed up as cheerleaders, at some primal level certain taboos can be sexually arousing in a conceptual way. This doesn't mean the women actually want to be raped anymore than the average middle aged man having his wife call him 'Daddy' in bed means he wants to screw his daughter. It's a true statement, but of course it's one that has to be addressed with nuance for reasons obvious to anyone without a motive.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
Poor cucks.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
American men allow their women to badmouth them in public with no consequences, flake with no consequences, and cheat/cuckold their men with no consequences.
They emasculate themselves in the media and in their personal lives in order to amuse their women. When women behave/dress/speak in a more masculine manner or plump up, men here accept it and excuse it. When women begin shaming men for being men and try to force them to adhere to the feminine imperative, men here capitulate and accept it, and even occasionally begin shaming one another for failing to do the same.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
What's a cuckold?
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:08 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
LOL. Men have put women on pedestals before modern times too. How many Victorian romances have we ever seen where 2 suitors are fighting over 1 woman? For cuckolding fetishes to be highly common, there will have to be a sizable percentage of men who didn't fall for the bait then.
Maybe in reality it's simpler to just admit that both men and women can have some crazy sex fantasies and be done with it.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:10 PM)Fitbud Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
What's a cuckold?
When you let your wife cheat on you and watch it.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:10 PM)Fitbud Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
What's a cuckold?
When an effeminate man who cannot please his wife lets someone else do it for him while he watches.
In other words, a pussie.
(This post was last modified: 05-29-2015 12:18 PM by shiftyeagle.)
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:13 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:08 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
LOL. Men have put women on pedestals before modern times too. How many Victorian romances have we ever seen where 2 suitors are fighting over 1 woman? For cuckolding fetishes to be highly common, there will have to be a sizable percentage of men who didn't fall for the bait then.
Maybe in reality it's simpler to just admit that both men and women can have some crazy sex fantasies and be done with it.
Victorian Age was a different dynamic. You were courting a virgin and she fully submitted to who she chose to marry. There are very few women in America worthy of this.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:19 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:13 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:08 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
LOL. Men have put women on pedestals before modern times too. How many Victorian romances have we ever seen where 2 suitors are fighting over 1 woman? For cuckolding fetishes to be highly common, there will have to be a sizable percentage of men who didn't fall for the bait then.
Maybe in reality it's simpler to just admit that both men and women can have some crazy sex fantasies and be done with it.
Victorian Age was a different dynamic. You were courting a virgin and she fully submitted to who she chose to marry. There are very few women in America worthy of this.
So you agree with me that men have put women on pedestals for a long time and before the modern age. That's all you needed to say.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:43 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:19 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:13 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:08 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:03 PM)miko33 Wrote: How common is it for men to have cuckold fantasies? What does it mean in the larger scheme of life?
http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...tuals.html
While no doubt people actually doing this is small in number, significantly more fantasize about it but would never pursue it in real life. Ultimately, kinks (or depravity depending on your POV) is independent of your sex, your income level or your demographics.
I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
LOL. Men have put women on pedestals before modern times too. How many Victorian romances have we ever seen where 2 suitors are fighting over 1 woman? For cuckolding fetishes to be highly common, there will have to be a sizable percentage of men who didn't fall for the bait then.
Maybe in reality it's simpler to just admit that both men and women can have some crazy sex fantasies and be done with it.
Victorian Age was a different dynamic. You were courting a virgin and she fully submitted to who she chose to marry. There are very few women in America worthy of this.
So you agree with me that men have put women on pedestals for a long time and before the modern age. That's all you needed to say.
No, I don't agree with the context that you attempted to compare. The woman was submissive, not put on a pedestal, once the marriage was consummated. The men made all the decisions. It is the complete opposite in the modern American family, where courtship involves logging into the Tinder app for a quick and easy sexual release and the women and left-wing courts hold all the cards and power in the rare outcome of marriage. The comparison failed.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
I have a fantasy about 72 virgins.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
(05-29-2015 12:56 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:43 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:19 PM)EverRespect Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:13 PM)miko33 Wrote: (05-29-2015 12:08 PM)EverRespect Wrote: I would imagine this is quite common for the modern man that has been trained to put women on a pedestal and lied to about what they want (to be manhandled). Anyone that allows this to happen is no man.
LOL. Men have put women on pedestals before modern times too. How many Victorian romances have we ever seen where 2 suitors are fighting over 1 woman? For cuckolding fetishes to be highly common, there will have to be a sizable percentage of men who didn't fall for the bait then.
Maybe in reality it's simpler to just admit that both men and women can have some crazy sex fantasies and be done with it.
Victorian Age was a different dynamic. You were courting a virgin and she fully submitted to who she chose to marry. There are very few women in America worthy of this.
So you agree with me that men have put women on pedestals for a long time and before the modern age. That's all you needed to say.
No, I don't agree with the context that you attempted to compare. The woman was submissive, not put on a pedestal, once the marriage was consummated. The men made all the decisions. It is the complete opposite in the modern American family, where courtship involves logging into the Tinder app for a quick and easy sexual release and the women and left-wing courts hold all the cards and power in the rare outcome of marriage. The comparison failed.
Of course you disagree, because you're working backwards towards your predetermined result, the severe issues you have with women. You really need to sit down with a therapist and work this all out, because you're completely oblivious to the fact that you're coming off as the feminine whiny beta-male you complain about society being full of.
You know what alpha-males don't do? Post on the internet complaining about not being able to make every decision in their marriage like in Victorian era.
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RE: Women's Rape Fantasies: How Common? What Do They Mean?
Bernie Sanders: My Rape Fantasy Essay Was Like ’50 Shades Of Gray’
Uh huh. If you were a Republican, you would already have quit from the firestorm of anger over it. Does anyone remember the Mitt Romney bullying story? Nothing about the years of good works he had done quietly and without fanfare.
Quote:Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) said on Sunday that a controversial essay he penned in 1972 discusses topics similar to the popular erotic novel 50 Shades of Gray.
The 2016 Democratic presidential candidate told host Chuck Todd on NBC’s “Meet the Press” that his essay was “very poorly written.”
“And if you read it, what it was dealing with was gender stereotypes, why some men like to oppress women, why other women like to be submissive,” Sanders said.
“You know, something like 50 Shades of Gray, very poorly written 43 years ago,” he added.
Sanders argued on Sunday that the 1972 Vermont Freeman piece had no bearing on his current political life.
“Look, this is a piece of fiction that I wrote in 1972, I think,” Sanders said. “That was 43 years ago.”
“What I am focused on today are the issues impacting the American people,” he added.
http://thehill.com/blogs/ballot-box/pres...es-of-gray
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