(12-11-2011 08:07 PM)Coopdaddy67 Wrote: I didn't see anyone hit UC fans on the videos. If you're referring to Frease, it didn't look like he came close to them. He got in a shouting match with them. Who cares? It happens.
Like I said, both sides were at fault. Trying to lay this entirely at the feet of Xavier and claiming UC's only flaw was reacting is ridiculous.
What's ridiculous is thinking that a player getting in the face of a fan in the stands - a middle-aged woman at that - is a "who cares?" behavior.
That is not a who care's action. That behavior to an opposing player is undesirable. That behavior to a FAN IN THE STANDS is 100% TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE.
That's the sort of attitude I would expect from a Xavier fan.
When these things happen it is a temptation to say that everyone is to blame, which makes us look objective and even-handed to our friends and acquaintances.
But not everything in the world is 50:50. Sometimes there is right and wrong. Sometimes one party is more responsible than another party, even if both parties have done something wrong.
Suggesting that both sides are equally wrong dilutes Xavier's institutional negligence and absolves them of guilt. Everybody's guilty! So nobody is really guilty. Business as usual.
UC's players are clearly guilty of what they did. Xavier's players are guilty of what they did and deliberately provoked. And Xavier University as an institution is guilty of institutional neglect and failure to control.
So anyway, what the heck. I give up trying to convince you. It's not worth the effort.