(02-11-2009 02:55 PM)smn1256 Wrote: It's ironic that when someone breaks away from tradition a group of folks want to jump on them but when people try to protect tradition, such as defining marriage the way it's always been defined, tradition is tossed out the window.
And perhaps you have me there. As someone who bristles at redefining marriage, maybe I'm just as guilty. I think there is a difference though, so permit me to elaborate.
Simply put, marriage has a rigid definition, not based solely on tradition, but rather on an inherent quality of a relationship. It is no coincidence that throught history, and throughout virtually all (if not all) cultures, one man and one woman can and do enter a specific relationship, a marriage. That relationship has certain attributes that transcend these various cultures, times and places. In some times and some places an individual may have multiple marriages...but note those are never combined and referred to as one marriage.
Thus there exists this unique institution called marriage. And you can try to re-define it or expand on the definition...but that only serves to water down your vocabulary. The unique institution still exists, even if your language no longer has a unique term for it. Redefine a circle to include ovals and squares if you will, but the unique properties of a circle will still exist, nor will they be transferred to those other shapes.
That isn't the case with man-made constructs like football...or the FCC or assembly lines. These institutions have been created, and modified to suit a given situation countless times. And when innovation comes along that
maintains the inherent qualities of any of these, yet
improves on their performance...those innovations shouldn't be opposed, they should be embraced!