GFlash68 Wrote:As for xmembers representing us in a bowl -- If your wife files for divoice on December 1, and it becomes final on January 15th, I doubt that you would take her to the New Year's Ball even tho you are technically still married. Suck it up, divoices just work that way. Accept the situation as it is, and your hope is that there will be better days ahead in your new relationship. :crying:
Well, fortunately, I don't have first hand experience with the divorce procedure, but I imagine the courts could determine who gets what and when.
The analogy about taking your EX to the ball isn't completely accurate here.
This is a more appropo scenario IMO.... you prohibit your "EX" from attending the country club ball, and he/she has commited funds (the exit fee) to go there - significant funds at that, and, in addition, you will still be collecting monies from the "ex" to make the ball financially feasible (purchase bowl game tickets). I suppose the judge may have a hand in determining if you can force the "EX" to stay home or, if the ex does stay home, then his/her outlay of funding would be reimbursed or reduced. Of course, the judge wouldn't have a say if the pre-nup or the country club agreements clearly call out you can make your "ex" stay home and he/she still has to pay.
Then we're forgetting one other thing - does the MAC determine which teams go to the bowls or do the bowls make that determination? Could be a moot point if it's the former. However, I imagine it's a consensus between the bowls and the conference with the conference having more say in the issue.
Again, I just hope this thing is CLEARLY spelled-out (one way or another) in the conference guidelines. If it's not, one can certainly imagine there would be MUCH discussion about what "membership" is or isn't along with what is appropriate and reasonable for departing members to expect.