CrimsonPhantom
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Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
Quote:For decades, the Democratic Party was seen as the party of the youth vote. Election after election, 18-29 year olds showed up at the polls, often in lagging numbers compared to other demographics, to throw their weight behind whatever left-wing politician was promising them the moon on any given day. They also were a key part of the "demographics as destiny" movement on the left as well, with the assumption being that Republicans would wither away as younger generations aged.
Then 2024 happened. Young men swung to now-President Donald Trump, with those gains being mirrored among racial minorities as well. What changed? That's the question Democrats have been scrambling to answer with high-priced consultants and hotel meeting room summits.
The latest attempt at solving that equation involves a focus group conducted by a "centrist pro-Democrat group" in several swing states. The implications of their findings are comedy gold, both because they show no easy path out of this for Democrats and because they tend to miss the point in the process.
What happened?
Young men in swing states say the Democratic Party abandoned them, leaving them feeling helpless in providing for their families as prices rose and jobs evaporated. They felt no sympathy from the left, who they say brushed away their legitimate economic woes by citing their male privilege. They acknowledge historical patriarchy but assert that doesn’t make them invincible in a job market where graduate unemployment is concentrated among men.
There's a lot to say about this, but I'll start by pointing out the obvious truth that you don't appeal to young men by hiring "pro-Democrat" consultants to poke and prod them. There is no magical solution waiting to be revealed by a focus group, and recognizing that would be the first step in the right direction for Democrats.
Regardless, you can already see the contempt jumping off the page in how the focus group is summarized. Despite claiming to want to understand young men more, phrases like "male privilege" and "historical patriarchy" are used to qualify their answers without a second thought. While the consultants appear to recognize that those claims hold no relevance in 2025 (and have even been reversed), they still perform the left-wing ritual rite of talking down to young men and casually dismissing them.
That dynamic is a big part of the problem, and it's not one that is going to change anytime soon. Take this next paragraph as the perfect example.
Men feeling left behind elicits eye rolls in many corners of the Democratic Party. The gender pay gap persists, with women making 85 percent of what men earned in 2024, despite greater female participation in the workforce than in past decades. The numerous calls from party leaders to appeal to the “manosphere” and appear less “woke” also elicit concerns that that means throwing marginalized groups under the bus on issues like trans or women’s rights.
You can't help but laugh. Democrats are trying to figure out why young men hate them while at the same time rolling their eyes at their concerns. Why? Because it might mean "throwing marginalized groups under the bus on issues like trans or women's rights." Newsflash: Young men (and men in general) are the marginalized group in 2025. They are constantly berated as the bane of society. Meanwhile, Democrats spend much of their energy trying to appeal to mentally ill people who believe they can change their sex and purple-haired women who screech about fascism on TikTok.
The reality of the situation for Democrats is simple, and they don't need to pay consultants to figure it out. You can not have a party that caters to the worst excesses of the far left while also appealing to the majority of young men. It's not a solvable equation, and unwittingly, this focus group and the way it's framed show that.
Past that, when Barack Obama is your party's only "masculine" role model, you've got issues.
Incidentally, Obama was the only Democrat whom focus group participants could name as a masculine role model from the party.
Obama screams a lot of things. Overwhelming masculinity isn't one of them, and if he's the only name the focus group participants could come up with, that should be a blaring red siren to Democrats to change course. Will they do that? Of course, not. At the end of the write-up on this focus group, Pete Buttigieg is cited as a "straight talker" who could bring young men back into the fold. So yeah, I rest my case.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
They know they have a problem, but they have absolutely no idea of what to do about it.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
(07-30-2025 11:59 AM)Native Georgian Wrote: They know they have a problem, but they have absolutely no idea of what to do about it.
Yes they do..... double down.
And I 100% endorse that strategy.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
Remember white dudes for Harris?  Fatties, baldies, a couple of f@gs, general low T and of course actors from capeshit movies.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
(07-30-2025 12:49 PM)b2b Wrote: Remember white dudes for Harris? Fatties, baldies, a couple of f@gs, general low T and of course actors from capeshit movies.
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Someone needs to hang that image around Roy Cooper’s campaign every day for the next 15 months.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
Let them go on wondering why nobody likes them. We don't want them to figure out that real men don't want to be queers like Walzo and Bootyjudge.
(This post was last modified: 07-30-2025 01:36 PM by Bear Catlett.)
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
Remember Leftists act as gay as possible to get young men to vote for you. Emulate masculine men like Tim Walz and you will surely win the White House in 2028.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
"The reality of the situation for Democrats is simple, and they don't need to pay consultants to figure it out. You can not have a party that caters to the worst excesses of the far left while also appealing to the majority of young men. It's not a solvable equation, and unwittingly, this focus group and the way it's framed show that."
That's absolutely true, the Far Left and real men are like oil and water, they just don't mix too well. I can bet there weren't too many REAL men in that Pride Parade audience...and to have that closet queer Walz as grand marshall says it all.
But, I'm 100% fine with it. Let them be questioning why real men don't appeal to those Demonics. I love it as a matter of fact.
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RE: Democrats Scramble to Figure Out Why Young Men Hate Them, and the Findings Are Comedy
All you have to do is look at the cries about Sidney Sweeney from yesterday and understand why young men are not on board with the Progressive movement.
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