(11-01-2016 08:38 PM)stinkfist Wrote:  extrapolate....choose....define.....you

this is the closest I've ever heard anyone speak about the 'how' that relates to 'conceptual perfection' how to define oneself....it reminds me how I've talked to my daughter over the years.....

I highly recommend if you have a spare 30 mins....

You are right Stink. This is really good and it lifted me. Particularly the guilt thing. Be your thing and love doing it. I can imagine you having a talk with your daughter like this with your unique way of expressing yourself even though I have never met you. The only thing I would add to it is, don't come down on others for loving doing their thing because who are you to criticize. Besides, you might come to appreciate their point of view over time.