(07-08-2022 02:59 PM)inductchuck16 Wrote: Gross. Men probably shouldn't be coaching women's sports. I knew of a high school AD who came in new to the school and specifically told me how the softball program needed a coaching change since it was all men holding the coaching spots. It's also creepy to me that UT's volleyball coach is a male. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This viewpoint seems to imply that all men are would-be abusers if they just get the chance, which clearly isn't true. And, if you truly believe this, then maybe men should not be allowed to teach girls/young women either, or be in any other profession that puts them in regular contact with young women. Also, this would potentially penalize girls/women's teams by not allowing them to higher the best available candidate if he happens to be a man.
And this also ignores the large number of incidents (there have been a lot) in recent years of female coaches being found to have been abusing their charges, sometimes for years or decades. Most of the time that has been emotional or psychological abuse and not sexual, but there have been a couple examples of the latter too. And there are incidents of male coaches abusing male athletes, so how do we address that one - have only female coaches for male teams?
The real problem is the culture we have in this country that makes it difficult to impossible for victims and even witnesses to come forward and report these things. And when the brave ones do, more often than not - like in this case - they are not believed and dismissed by the very people who are supposed to be protecting them. Abusers like this in general don't wake up one day in their 40s and decide to start sexually assaulting young women. It seems likely that he had been doing bad things even before he came to Toledo. He could have been stopped in his tracks if the very first incident was reported, believed, properly investigated and appropriate action taken. But that seems to not happen very often - even today, even with Title IX requiring it, and the huge threat of expensive lawsuits. That's so sad.
Heck we have two justices on the supreme court who were reported as abusers by women, and those reports were disbelieved as lies and slander and just women's regret, because in this country people have been programmed (by powerful men) that it is easier to believe that a women is a liar than a victim, no matter what the weight of the evidence to the contrary.