(05-12-2022 12:49 AM)RiceLad15 Wrote: (05-11-2022 11:36 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote: (05-11-2022 03:15 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: (05-11-2022 02:46 PM)OptimisticOwl Wrote: (05-11-2022 02:25 PM)RiceLad15 Wrote: But that wasn’t the comment I was responding to - it was when a fetus became a “child” or if it was a “child” from fertilization.
IMO, it becomes a child at fertilization, and everything after that is a stage of development on the way to being an adult human.
A better question is when does it stop being a child? 18? Why that number? It used to be much lower. Of course, it also used to be 21. Is either of those when it suddenly becomes viable to live on its own?
I knew a man who thought like that. He kicked his son out of the house on his 18th birthday. The kid was still in high school.
Yep - I disagree with that perspective, but like I said, it’s our prerogatives to do so.
I think comparing something that’s more scientific (child vs fertilized egg/fetus/etc.) and based primarily off of developmental stages to something that is a legal construct, is a tough one and not necessarily apt. And it’s definitely not apt to compare viability of literally surviving with living independently.
But in that vein, I don’t know if there are perfect answers to setting any line when it comes to age and legal standings. There are always pros and cons, and I think it’s best is all sides recognized that and did not demonize or belittle others who disagreed with where that line was set.
I have tried to present MY views. Note the usage of "IMO". If anybody thinks I demonizing their views I apologize. It was not my intent. However I do think that defining certain stages as not-human or not-child is just using euphemisms to fool oneself, much like the Nazis found justification in defining Jews as sub-human. JMHO
OO - take a step back and look at what you just wrote.
You just said people like myself, who are more apt to call something a fetus are akin to Nazis. How is that not demonizing the other side?
I personally would have no issue categorizing a fetus as a human, but labeling it a child already adds a lot of connotations that don’t seem appropriate. Even more so when it is just a fertilized egg.
yeah, I thought that would be misunderstood when I wrote it.
But we humans have a history of dividing ourselves into "us" and "them", and generally it is not an offense or a lesser offense to do things to "them". whether these divisions are between Zulu/Bantu, Apache/Arapahoe, Hutu/Tutsi, Aryan/Jew, White/black, Japanese/Korean, and on and on, doesn't matter. What matters is the mindset that killing "X" is somehow different from killing a real live human like people in the "us" class.
Just saying people play mind games to differentiate. Many primitive tribes felt like any outsider was to be killed immediately. In a few places, this attitude persists. For example,
North Sentinel Island.
"The Sentinelese have repeatedly attacked approaching vessels. Such attacks have resulted in the deaths of two fishermen in 2006 and an American Christian missionary,
John Allen Chau in 2018."
The nazis soothed their consciences by defining the Jews as "not the same", in fact, lesser. Same has been done in this continent regarding Chinese or natives.
The point is, many of us use alternate classifications to ease our discomfort. Much easier to terminate, rather than kill, a fetus, rather than a child, even though in either case it signals the end to existence of some...thing(?) that if left alone would someday become a high school graduate.
Ergo, the mini-whirlwind over calling it a child. Of course, nobody wants to kill a child. Much better to terminate a fetus. Way different.
A rose by any other name...
If you take your dog to the vet and abort their litter, they are still puppies.
The fact that many of us, including nazis and non-nazis, have fallen into this way of thinking in no way means we embrace nazi philosophy, any more than it means we embrace North Sentinelese thinking. I was referring to the practice of changing the name/classification of something to make an action against it more palatable. For some reason, I have more trouble explaining this concept to liberals, who continue to insist it is not a child, it is a (something that is not a child).
To be perfectly clear, I am accusing anybody pro or anti of being nazis, or nazi sympathizers, just of sharing a common human way of looking at things, a way shared with nearly every human being who has ever existed.
Also to be clear, I support the right of women to
kill their children control their reproduction. See how just changing the terms makes it more/less palatable?