09-02-2017, 09:38 AM
I've never experienced the pain that I've seen several of you describe until this past week. It's a week we've known would come but never expected it to happen as it did. Eight years ago we were given a pup that was a few months old. He was a rat terrier and just didn't act right for a rat terrier. He slept a lot, drank a lot, and peed a lot. We didn't know what was wrong...he didn't act like a puppy. Well, he was diabetic.
Dr told us we should put him down....that he'd only survive 1 year, but we wanted to try. We gave him insulin and after 5 days he still wasn't better. I had made up my mind to put him down the next morning. I woke up and the little guy was on my chest, tail wagging, biting my nose. Memphis was a fighter. He had his health issues going forward, but always was happy. The happiest dog I've ever seen. He got his shots of insulin every day, but he didn't mind one bit. He knew we were keeping him alive.
Sunday night, in about the course of an hour Memphis really started to seem to feel bad. We had taken him to get ice cream (because we were bad/good parents) and he felt awful. We thought maybe it was his sugars. When he still was sick Monday I took him to the vet and was told his kidneys were failing. We were given 4 months. I thought I would get my full 4 months, if not longer....remember, he's a fighter.
Against our better judgment, we wanted a second opinion...that and fluids. So we took him to another vet Thursday morning. We were hopeful fluids would make him pep up and, if he had only 4 months, give him a happy 4 months. The vet was concerned about his liver levels...so she did an x-ray. Tumor...everywhere. The most humane option was to put him down. They brought him back to us and he was happy. Almost like he didn't want to go anywhere....I caught his head as he left the earth. In the past 10 years I've not cried as much as in the last 48 hours. From Sunday to Thursday I went from "he's normal" to "he's feels bad" to "he's has 4 months" to "he's gone".
I'm not sure what to think or how to act. I know he was a dog and this is the progression of life, I get that. I know we did the right thing...even though I've questioned it countless times. I've lost loved ones and it hurt...but this just feels different. I don't know how exactly to cope. Sure, time will make everything feel a little better...but, odd as it sounds...I feel like I lost of piece of me Thursday. I think the deeper connection is from us literally keeping the little fella alive through his shots daily...I don't know.
My apologies for voicing this here...I had hoped it would be therapeutic. I don't know if anything will be therapeutic. The world is just different now.
Dr told us we should put him down....that he'd only survive 1 year, but we wanted to try. We gave him insulin and after 5 days he still wasn't better. I had made up my mind to put him down the next morning. I woke up and the little guy was on my chest, tail wagging, biting my nose. Memphis was a fighter. He had his health issues going forward, but always was happy. The happiest dog I've ever seen. He got his shots of insulin every day, but he didn't mind one bit. He knew we were keeping him alive.
Sunday night, in about the course of an hour Memphis really started to seem to feel bad. We had taken him to get ice cream (because we were bad/good parents) and he felt awful. We thought maybe it was his sugars. When he still was sick Monday I took him to the vet and was told his kidneys were failing. We were given 4 months. I thought I would get my full 4 months, if not longer....remember, he's a fighter.
Against our better judgment, we wanted a second opinion...that and fluids. So we took him to another vet Thursday morning. We were hopeful fluids would make him pep up and, if he had only 4 months, give him a happy 4 months. The vet was concerned about his liver levels...so she did an x-ray. Tumor...everywhere. The most humane option was to put him down. They brought him back to us and he was happy. Almost like he didn't want to go anywhere....I caught his head as he left the earth. In the past 10 years I've not cried as much as in the last 48 hours. From Sunday to Thursday I went from "he's normal" to "he's feels bad" to "he's has 4 months" to "he's gone".
I'm not sure what to think or how to act. I know he was a dog and this is the progression of life, I get that. I know we did the right thing...even though I've questioned it countless times. I've lost loved ones and it hurt...but this just feels different. I don't know how exactly to cope. Sure, time will make everything feel a little better...but, odd as it sounds...I feel like I lost of piece of me Thursday. I think the deeper connection is from us literally keeping the little fella alive through his shots daily...I don't know.
My apologies for voicing this here...I had hoped it would be therapeutic. I don't know if anything will be therapeutic. The world is just different now.