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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 02:43 PM)HawkeyeCoug Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 01:57 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  In pretty much the only thing that I've seen The Dude of WV write that I agree with: membership in the Big 12 is a privilege, NOT a right.

If BYU doesn't make it into the Big 12, then BYU would be the one denying their players that Big 12 opportunity with how they have written their honor code (which some have claimed is not even enforced with respect to the homosexual intimacy paragraph that's at issue here, which makes it even more ridiculous to have that language in the first place). The Big 12 doesn't have to accept a school that they believe is engaging in discrimination regardless of whether it's based upon a religious belief.

First, the reactionaries saying that "holding hands will get you kicked out of BYU" have no basis in reality. They have never come forward with a single person who has been kicked out of BYU for holding hands. They have never come forward with someone who was kicked out of BYU for kissing. They simply have no data, no facts, and no real information.

I challenge Tom to find one reputable instance of someone who was kicked out of BYU for just holding hands or just kissing. I've already supplied you with the counter-example of my cousin who was not kicked out. This is not "non-enforcement," just the reality that things are quite different than what the SJW dramatically claim, and are handled in a more mature way.

Second, you are missing the point that the conference and the presidents have a fiduciary duty to the conference. They have a responsibility to help get the best schools available, or the conference is at risk of being poached by P5 conferences making more money. You have to come back to the data, and this is where BYU shines.
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If the presidents leave BYU out for political reasons, they are abrogating their fiduciary responsibilities to their schools and conference, contrary to what they have committed to do.

Can a LGBT man, married to another man, be hired as a coach at BYU? No.

I already gave you several cases of students being kicked out or forced out. Here's how I was told it works in practice. Say, you get stopped by Provo PD for speeding. Cop notices your BYU parking decal and also finds a Gay (not porn) magazine in the back seat. Two days later, you get called to BYU security (or the honor code office). You admit you are struggling with your sexual orientation but don't ask for 'help'. You are immediately kicked out of your dorm and placed in some sort of special dorm for 'bad people'. Everyone on campus knows it. You are subjected to all kinds of special pressure by your Bishop (who can expel you from school if he revokes your 'endorsement') and requirements to do counseling you don't want. While this is going on, you are shunned by everyone you know. In the end, your Bishop yanks it. Or you just walk due to the pressure. You're effectively expelled as a result. And because they're still trying to compel you to go through their counseling, BYU won't release the credits that you paid for. Or out of spite. I'm less clear on the whole 'how long or why they held up the records part of the story'. Eventually they release those transcripts. But you've lost a year. And you never even had sex. Or even violated the honor code (well actually saying "I'm gay" was an expellable offensive until 2007 or so)

That was the story told to me by a buddy of mine, who is not given to exaggeration, emotional outbursts,showboating, or anger. Nor is he really telling people who don't ask about his BYU experience about it either. Its possible he made the story up. But I believe him.

Other, similar but not as extreme, recollections, were backed up by many of my ex-LDS/BYU friends (I have no idea why I have so many of them). Some made it through, some didn't. Most aren't even that bitter (or at least they don't show it). Maybe things are different now, but the honor code and the ecclesiastical endorsement still hang over every student and staff member's head. I'd also like to note that while BYU allows students to join a group for persons who might be Gay, that group IIRC, is not allowed to meet on campus.

Here's a very long article talking about BYU. http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...b-y-u.html

Here's a law student (straight) threatened with expulsion from the law school if he didn't alter a book he wrote http://fusion.net/story/295265/law-stude...-marriage/

The problem isn't just the honor code. Its how it works in coordination with the religious endorsement one needs to maintain to remain in school.

I look forward to the day when I don't strongly oppose BYU's inclusion in the league. Today ain't that day. BYU could make some minor changes to their honor code to make it work. But an equally large issue seems to be that ecclesiastical endorsement requirement. It places way too much power in your hometown Bishop. It creates different outcomes for different students (got a decent and kind Bishop, you're probably going to make it...a spiteful one - you might be in trouble).

Changing a few items in the honor code and making the ecclesiastical endorsement requirement less of a threat won't make BYU less Mormon. It will make it more acceptable to others, thus helping them fulfill their stated mission of evangelism. It certainly would help them get in the Big XII

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I fail to see how this level of discrimination can be consistent with the Big XII's stated value of non-discrimination.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
Comparing discrimination against blacks 50 years ago and discrimination based on religous morality is a stretch at best comparing apples and oranges...

Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...
And if you are not their religion and have issues with it you should not be going to their school just like you should not attned satanic services if you are a Christian...

If you have a problem with their honor code you have a problem with their religion and you are the one discriminating...

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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 04:57 PM)00yyz Wrote:  Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...
There is nobody telling they they cannot practice their religious beliefs at their schools.

There are activists lobbying Big 12 Presidents that the Big12 does not give a vote in the Big12 conference to an institution that has those discriminatory rules and practices in place, and that is the prerogative of the Big12. Nobody is entitled to a Big12 invitation, after all.

(08-16-2016 02:43 PM)HawkeyeCoug Wrote:  Second, you are missing the point that the conference and the presidents have a fiduciary duty to the conference.
Of course they don't. The conference is a membership club and they do not have a fiduciary responsibility to it. Their fiduciary duty is to their individual school.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 04:57 PM)00yyz Wrote:  Comparing discrimination against blacks 50 years ago and discrimination based on religous morality is a stretch at best comparing apples and oranges...

Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...
And if you are not their religion and have issues with it you should not be going to their school just like you should not attned satanic services if you are a Christian...

If you have a problem with their honor code you have a problem with their religion and you are the one discriminating...

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The Big XII has a book too. Its called its bylaws. It bans discrimination. Even if someone throws an "Amen" at the end of that discrimination.

Should they toss their book out?

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In effect, by adding BYU, the Big XII would demand that in order to access the benefits of membership (higher pay, more exposure) LGBT persons would be subjected to ridiculous rules (such as...want to coach at a certain Big XII school..then you need to get a divorce). In effect its a ban.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 04:57 PM)00yyz Wrote:  Comparing discrimination against blacks 50 years ago and discrimination based on religous morality is a stretch at best comparing apples and oranges...

Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...
And if you are not their religion and have issues with it you should not be going to their school just like you should not attned satanic services if you are a Christian...

If you have a problem with their honor code you have a problem with their religion and you are the one discriminating...

...FSM FSM FSM!!!

Ah, I see that you're a subscriber to the popular "You're discriminating against my right to discriminate!" or "People should be tolerant of my intolerance!" argument.

The comparison to racial discrimination is NOT a stretch. It's actually exactly on point: separate but equal conditions are unconstitutional. The fact that there are other non-discriminatory options for a person that is being discriminated against is NOT a defense.

Now, BYU certainly has a right to discriminate based on its religious belief. However, you cannot turn around and then state that the Big 12 is suddenly engaging in religious discrimination if it doesn't take in BYU. Mormons are treated the exact same way at Big 12 universities as they are at BYU. The converse is not applied to homosexual *intimacy* at BYU. We're not talking about premarital sex. This is about basic intimacy.

And, once again, if the argument from the defenders of the honor code is that BYU doesn't punish anyway for a violation (which Tom has pointed out his skepticism over), then why the heck even have the language in the honor code at all? That still baffles me.

Look - this has nothing to do with individual Mormons or BYU alums, all of which have been exceedingly great people when I have met with them. This honor code issue actually gets to the heart of who the Big 12 university presidents are dealing with: the actual leadership at BYU. The leadership of BYU is who controls the honor code. It's entirely within their control. We can point to dozens of other religious schools in this country that practice religions that believe that homosexuality is a sin BUT they don't have any honor code that treats homosexual students and staff any differently than BYU. Even within the Big 12, Baylor made changes to its own code of conduct last year in order to remove anti-LGBT language (and that's about as socially conservative of a school as you can get). There is nothing in the Bible or Book of Mormon than mandates the specific language in BYU's honor code at all - this is totally in control of the school's leadership. There are ways to practice your religion (which may still teach that homosexuality is a sin) without enacting a discriminatory honor code against students and staff. That's the difference between BYU versus the other religious schools that play FBS football.
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And frankly, I wish that BYU would figure out a way to reconcile this issue. I've said for many years that they're the most valuable possible addition to the Big 12 with the largest fan base and best football brand name. They make sense from a pure financial and athletic perspective. However, this LGBT treatment issue is a big deal. The number of people that support LGBT rights has grown exponentially - what was a small minority in 2006 is now a rapidly growing majority in 2016 (and it's only going to grow faster and faster since young people are about as close to unanimous in supporting gay marriage as they are on any political issue, so this debate is effectively over in the long-term despite some hangers-on that continue to want to fight).
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 04:57 PM)00yyz Wrote:  Comparing discrimination against blacks 50 years ago and discrimination based on religous morality is a stretch at best comparing apples and oranges...

Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...

I hope you realize that there's a reason someone mentioned 1978 earlier. Before 1978, Mormons used their religion as the reason why they discriminated against blacks. So yeah, in this case it is actually apples and apples...
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-16-2016 05:45 PM)TomThumb Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 04:57 PM)00yyz Wrote:  Comparing discrimination against blacks 50 years ago and discrimination based on religous morality is a stretch at best comparing apples and oranges...

Their religon is based off the teaching of their book(s) and to tell them they cannot practice their religous beliefs at a religous instution (school) is pure and simple discrimination...

I hope you realize that there's a reason someone mentioned 1978 earlier. Before 1978, Mormons used their religion as the reason why they discriminated against blacks. So yeah, in this case it is actually apples and apples...

I believe that African Americans were allowed to attend and work at BYU prior to 1978. Lets focus this on BYU and not the LDS church. I'm not demanding the LDS church do anything except stop demanding that BYU discriminate in employment, athletic participation, and admissions (and remember, you don't have to be Mormon to work at BYU - so they do accommodate some outsiders - just not LGBT persons). That being said...

I'd also argue that one can argue that BYU's effective argument is pretty much the exact same one that segregationists used to defend bans on black players and coaches in the late 60's in the SEC.

They'd say...sure (that minority) can't work here at Bama, but see, they can get a job a Kentucky. And they can't play here either but they can go play at Tuskegee. Well the problem with that is that to limit a minority to a lower number of positions at the big name schools is to effectively limit their opportunities. And to say that if BYU is in the Big XII and UH gets left behind in the AAC that its not discriminatory because a coach who is banned at BYU in the P5 can go work at UH in the G5, is risible. P5 unfortunately does NOT equal to G5. The salaries and opportunities aren't comparable.

I don't use the LGBT discrimination = African American discrimination argument lightly. Frequently the situation contains a lot of differences. But in this specific case, its really easy to substitute BYU for Alabama, Big XII for SEC, 2016 for 1967, and LGBT for African American. As well as the exact same impact on the careers of the targeted minority coach or player.

Only difference is that BYU puts an "Amen" on the end of it. And the targeted minority is different.
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(08-16-2016 11:02 AM)HawkeyeCoug Wrote:  One of the big things missing is any evidence. Can they find even one person who was kicked out of BYU for holding hands? My Lesbian cousin graduated from BYU, and was never kicked out for "holding hands." Let them bring up real data, on not speculation on how they think BYU might enforce things.

Ironically, BYU was recently rated as the safest college campus by Niche
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People keep forgetting that it is not just this LGBT issue. It is the issue of BYU booting reaped victims from the school for breaking the honor code.
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(08-16-2016 11:43 AM)kardphan Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 11:40 AM)RutgersGuy Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 11:19 AM)kardphan Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 11:17 AM)MplsBison Wrote:  If Baylor hadn't happened, then this might've been ignored. I don't think they can ignore it now.

I guess BYU is still in play though.

And I don't believe for a second that expansion to 14 is on the table. Compromise will win the day, and 12 is a fair compromise.


I'm sticking to my guns (sort of):
- BYU allowed: BYU + Houston are in
- BYU not allowed: Houston + Cincy are in

This is the problem that I have. Its only a problem when it happens to someone else so lets go ahead and pull the plug on everybody. This way of doing things is beyond silly. Lets punish other schools for another ones sins. Because we turned a blind eye to it for so long we want to act like this is serious....I'm not saying its not right i'm just saying people choose to take a stance on it now because of what happened at baylor.

Wait...it's NOT BYU's fault for being so closed minded and anti-LGBT? C'mon now. Don't says it's religious because most of the FBS private religious schools don't act like this with the exception of Baylor who just seems @$$ backwards in all regards. You don't see Notre Dame, BC, TCU or even the 90% catholic Big East putting these rules in place and discriminating.

I never said it was right.lol I was arguing the point that one said "Since it happened to Baylor". Thats all i'm not arguing the social aspect of it. That wasn't even my point i'm well aware Religious schools go by a certain set of rules. I was just saying it seems to be an issue "now". This was never brought up before. I have no dog in the fight i'm just making an observation.

Well it has been an issue before and for years even. Thats why the Pac-8/10/12 never gave BYU any thought about membership. Their stances were too far out there for them.
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The Big 12 can take whomever they want. If they think that BYU could cause some issues on the political (or PC) front, I have no issue with that being taken into account in their calculations. There are other schools where none of that comes into play.
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(08-16-2016 02:43 PM)HawkeyeCoug Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 01:57 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  In pretty much the only thing that I've seen The Dude of WV write that I agree with: membership in the Big 12 is a privilege, NOT a right.

If BYU doesn't make it into the Big 12, then BYU would be the one denying their players that Big 12 opportunity with how they have written their honor code (which some have claimed is not even enforced with respect to the homosexual intimacy paragraph that's at issue here, which makes it even more ridiculous to have that language in the first place). The Big 12 doesn't have to accept a school that they believe is engaging in discrimination regardless of whether it's based upon a religious belief.

First, the reactionaries saying that "holding hands will get you kicked out of BYU" have no basis in reality. They have never come forward with a single person who has been kicked out of BYU for holding hands. They have never come forward with someone who was kicked out of BYU for kissing. They simply have no data, no facts, and no real information.

I challenge Tom to find one reputable instance of someone who was kicked out of BYU for just holding hands or just kissing. I've already supplied you with the counter-example of my cousin who was not kicked out. This is not "non-enforcement," just the reality that things are quite different than what the SJW dramatically claim, and are handled in a more mature way.

Second, you are missing the point that the conference and the presidents have a fiduciary duty to the conference. They have a responsibility to help get the best schools available, or the conference is at risk of being poached by P5 conferences making more money. You have to come back to the data, and this is where BYU shines.
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If the presidents leave BYU out for political reasons, they are abrogating their fiduciary responsibilities to their schools and conference, contrary to what they have committed to do.

Hahahaha accept our discrimination out of fiduciary duty!!! Hahaha dude, Cincy and Houston are just as good and actually sit in big tv markets.
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(08-16-2016 11:43 AM)kardphan Wrote:  I never said it was right.lol I was arguing the point that one said "Since it happened to Baylor". Thats all i'm not arguing the social aspect of it. That wasn't even my point i'm well aware Religious schools go by a certain set of rules. I was just saying it seems to be an issue "now". This was never brought up before.

The two plausible P5 conferences for BYU to get into are the Pac12 and the Big12. This is a standing issue which is part of what accounts for BYU not having any hope of ever getting into the Pac-12.

Since the Big12 has several private schools, one of which is directly controlled by a church, it's not been considered to be automatic that it excludes the BYU from the Big12.

And now is when the Big12 is openly inviting auditions, so the activists who are opposed to allowing a LGBT discriminatory school have to make a push now if they want to block it.
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Isn't this a recycled topic from the earlier threads that ended up being locked? Glad all the same people are here beating their views like a drum again. And most are fans of schools that stand to benefit from BYU being excluded. Go figure! :)
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(08-17-2016 03:20 AM)KUGR Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Ah, I see that you're a subscriber to the popular "You're discriminating against my right to discriminate!" or "People should be tolerant of my intolerance!" argument.

That's just the point, Frank. Just because YOU say it is discrimination and it's not what YOU believe doesn't make that so. BYU feels the activity falls in the category of morally objectionable. It's where they draw the line in the sand. Once you allow others to re-draw that line where does it end? It's only a matter of time before someone challenges the courts on something like incest as long as it is between "consenting adults". Deviants are always upping the ante. You know it and I know it. And someone will be calling BYU bigots for that at some point when they say that is morally objectionable. You can love the sinner without loving the sin. Trying to tell BYU what they must believe is a sin is where the discrimination occurs.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  The comparison to racial discrimination is NOT a stretch. It's actually exactly on point: separate but equal conditions are unconstitutional.

Once again, that is NOT equal. It's not anymore equal than married and unmarried people at BYU. The law says either are ok. BYU has a moral standard which differentiates.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Now, BYU certainly has a right to discriminate based on its religious belief. However, you cannot turn around and then state that the Big 12 is suddenly engaging in religious discrimination if it doesn't take in BYU.

Frank, you are talking out of both sides of your mouth now. You are on the discrimination bandwagon. Either both are discrimination or neither are discrimination. You've backed yourself into that corner. If BYU is discriminating because they morally believe homosexuality is a sin then the Big 12 is SURELY discriminating if they bar BYU because they don't agree with BYU's religious beliefs. If BYU doesn't have a right to decide what is right or wrong then the Big 12 can't be given that right either.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  if the argument from the defenders of the honor code is that BYU doesn't punish anyway for a violation

Frank, it's because there are different levels of violation. Drinking coffee is not the same as doing LSD.

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(08-17-2016 03:20 AM)KUGR Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Ah, I see that you're a subscriber to the popular "You're discriminating against my right to discriminate!" or "People should be tolerant of my intolerance!" argument.

That's just the point, Frank. Just because YOU say it is discrimination and it's not what YOU believe doesn't make that so. BYU feels the activity falls in the category of morally objectionable. It's where they draw the line in the sand. Once you allow others to re-draw that line where does it end? It's only a matter of time before someone challenges the courts on something like incest as long as it is between "consenting adults". Deviants are always upping the ante. You know it and I know it. And someone will be calling BYU bigots for that at some point when they say that is morally objectionable. You can love the sinner without loving the sin. Trying to tell BYU what they must believe is a sin is where the discrimination occurs.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  The comparison to racial discrimination is NOT a stretch. It's actually exactly on point: separate but equal conditions are unconstitutional.

Once again, that is NOT equal. It's not anymore equal than married and unmarried people at BYU. The law says either are ok. BYU has a moral standard which differentiates.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Now, BYU certainly has a right to discriminate based on its religious belief. However, you cannot turn around and then state that the Big 12 is suddenly engaging in religious discrimination if it doesn't take in BYU.

Frank, you are talking out of both sides of your mouth now. You are on the discrimination bandwagon. Either both are discrimination or neither are discrimination. You've backed yourself into that corner. If BYU is discriminating because they morally believe homosexuality is a sin then the Big 12 is SURELY discriminating if they bar BYU because they don't agree with BYU's religious beliefs. If BYU doesn't have a right to decide what is right or wrong then the Big 12 can't be given that right either.

(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  if the argument from the defenders of the honor code is that BYU doesn't punish anyway for a violation

Frank, it's because there are different levels of violation. Drinking coffee is not the same as doing LSD.

Keep calling homosexuals deviants, totally showing you guys aren't bigots.
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(08-17-2016 08:24 AM)f1do Wrote:  Isn't this a recycled topic from the earlier threads that ended up being locked? Glad all the same people are here beating their views like a drum again. And most are fans of schools that stand to benefit from BYU being excluded. Go figure! :)

My school isn't trying to get into the Big XII. It's almost like most people think your honor code is bigoted.

Lets not even mention the fact that .6% of the student population is black as of 2010 (176 out of 32,947) yet made up 23% of the athletic department and that 60% of the honor code violations are black men.

http://deadspin.com/5791461/the-truth-ab...ode-at-byu

Yeah, you guys are totally not bigoted, you're just misunderstood.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
The NCAA should be a melting pot of educational institutions at all levels P5,G5, FCS.

I think parents should have choices. They should be able to send their daughter to an all girls school, or son to an all boys school. They should be able to send their kids to a Muslim, Christian or secular school. These are choices American families should have. The NCAA should not be involved in liberal social engineering.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-17-2016 09:44 AM)ODU BLUE Wrote:  The NCAA should be a melting pot of educational institutions at all levels P5,G5, FCS.

I think parents should have choices. They should be able to send their daughter to an all girls school, or son to an all boys school. They should be able to send their kids to a Muslim, Christian or secular school. These are choices Americans families should have. The NCAA should not be involved in liberal social engineering.

Okay Corky, where is the NCAA saying people can't go to BYU? Just throw some more "liberals" out there like you know what you're talking about.
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RE: DMN - If LGBT stance disqualifies BYU as Big 12 expansion candidate.....
(08-17-2016 03:20 AM)KUGR Wrote:  
(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Ah, I see that you're a subscriber to the popular "You're discriminating against my right to discriminate!" or "People should be tolerant of my intolerance!" argument.

That's just the point, Frank. Just because YOU say it is discrimination and it's not what YOU believe doesn't make that so. BYU feels the activity falls in the category of morally objectionable. It's where they draw the line in the sand. Once you allow others to re-draw that line where does it end? It's only a matter of time before someone challenges the courts on something like incest as long as it is between "consenting adults". Deviants are always upping the ante. You know it and I know it. And someone will be calling BYU bigots for that at some point when they say that is morally objectionable. You can love the sinner without loving the sin. Trying to tell BYU what they must believe is a sin is where the discrimination occurs.

Two points:

(1) Federal anti-discrimination laws state that sexual orientation is a protected class. It's not my opinion that there is discrimination here. The law states it.

(2) No one is trying to tell BYU what they must believe is a sin. BYU has a constitutionally protected right to believe what they want to believe. However, just because you have a constitutionally protected right to believe what you want to believe doesn't mean that you have a constitutionally protected right from consequences from holding that viewpoint. Your First Amendment rights protect you from the government restricting your speech or practice of religion, but the government doesn't protect you from the consequences of that speech or practice of religion. Your employer can certainly fire you for having homophobic (or racist or sexist) viewpoints (and in fact, it would happen at my own company, which is in the Global Fortune 100) even though you have a right to have those viewpoints or even sincerely believe there's a moral basis to such viewpoints. You are NOT protected from those consequences. Likewise, the Big 12 has their own policies that object to homophobia and they are perfectly free to choose or not choose BYU on that basis.

Too many people are confusing the right to free speech or the establishment of religion with believing that you have a right to be free from social consequences from exercising that right. That's completely wrong. The government can't put you into jail for exercising that right. However, broader society can impose whatever negative consequences on what they find to be objectionable speech or viewpoints that they please.

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(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  The comparison to racial discrimination is NOT a stretch. It's actually exactly on point: separate but equal conditions are unconstitutional.

Once again, that is NOT equal. It's not anymore equal than married and unmarried people at BYU. The law says either are ok. BYU has a moral standard which differentiates.

No. It's quite different than, say, the rules regarding sexual activity as applied to married versus unmarried people. If BYU simply stated everyone must practice chastity regardless of sexual orientation, then no one would have an issue. Where BYU gets scrutiny is having rules where heterosexuals are allowed to display other types of intimacy whereas homosexuals are not allowed to do the same.

Now, the law states that's acceptable within the context of BYU under the establishment clause. I'm not disputing that fact. (Of course, if the University of Texas and other public institutions did the same, they would be in violation of federal equal protection laws.) However, the fact that a religion believes that an act is based on a moral standard is irrelevant and doesn't make it immune from criticism or social consequences (as there are lots of terrible actions throughout history that were justified by religious moral imperatives).

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(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  Now, BYU certainly has a right to discriminate based on its religious belief. However, you cannot turn around and then state that the Big 12 is suddenly engaging in religious discrimination if it doesn't take in BYU.

Frank, you are talking out of both sides of your mouth now. You are on the discrimination bandwagon. Either both are discrimination or neither are discrimination. You've backed yourself into that corner. If BYU is discriminating because they morally believe homosexuality is a sin then the Big 12 is SURELY discriminating if they bar BYU because they don't agree with BYU's religious beliefs. If BYU doesn't have a right to decide what is right or wrong then the Big 12 can't be given that right either.

Not quite sure what you mean by talking out of both sides of my mouth. Just because a group believes something is a sin or has some type of moral basis doesn't suddenly give it immunity. Slaveowners used the Bible to provide a moral basis for justify slavery (and if you take the Bible literally as many fundamentalists insist upon, the Old Testament in particular is VERY comfortable with the notion of slavery). Religious moral beliefs were used as the justifications for witch burnings in this country. The Mormon Church didn't allow for black ministers until 1978 based on its moral beliefs. Heck, in the most extreme example, ISIS fighters sincerely believe that they have a moral basis under the Koran to engage in terrorism.

There are lots and lots and lots religious groups throughout history that sincerely believed that what they were doing was morally correct based on their religion, yet we can now see that it was reprehensible behavior. Once again, people have the right to believe what they want to believe. However, when the exercise of that belief then results in a harm to another person (whether it's discrimination or physical harm), then that certainly doesn't provide that person immunity from criticism and social consequences (and, in the cases of criminal activity based on moral platitudes, legal consequences). The fact that one group believes that a viewpoint is morally justified doesn't mean that the rest of the word has to accept it, particularly if harm is being done to others in the process.

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(08-16-2016 05:25 PM)Frank the Tank Wrote:  if the argument from the defenders of the honor code is that BYU doesn't punish anyway for a violation

Frank, it's because there are different levels of violation. Drinking coffee is not the same as doing LSD.

Sure, I understand that there are different levels of violation. However, being a coffee drinker doesn't make you part of a protected class. Doing LSD doesn't make you part of a protected class. Engaging in premarital sex doesn't make you part of a protected class. There is nothing prohibited in the BYU honor code that makes you part of a protected class... except for the paragraph that prohibits homosexual activity. That is why there's an issue here.

Therefore, if there is one paragraph in the BYU honor code that is discriminating against a protected class and BYU truly doesn't actually enforce it, then why the heck is that paragraph still in there? What is the value in keeping it? The school can still teach that homosexuality is a sin (just as Baylor and Notre Dame do) without having discriminatory *treatment* of its students in its honor code (which is what Baylor and Notre Dame have been able to avoid). Believing a viewpoint in and of itself is one thing, but harming someone else based on that belief is where the general public has a problem.

As a practical matter, it seems that BYU is getting all of the downside of being accused of being discriminatory (whether you personally believe it or not) when it's not actually putting it into practice. That's actually the worst of both worlds for BYU. They seem to be dying on the vine (at least from a conference realignment perspective) on principle when they're not enforcing that principle in practice. That doesn't make sense to me.
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