(05-19-2016 07:51 PM)ark30inf Wrote: (05-19-2016 07:03 PM)Tom in Lazybrook Wrote: (05-19-2016 03:07 PM)Owl 69/70/75 Wrote: (05-17-2016 12:23 PM)Tom in Lazybrook Wrote: In order to be considered a part of the South, you must agree with and publicly uphold the tenets dictated by the elites. Those tenets are that men should really run things, minorities should keep their mouths shut and know their places, fundamentalism is the moral arbiter, and new ideas aren't welcome.
Tom, I grew up in a small town in the south, or more properly out in the country near there. I'm sure you know exactly which one. I'd say that exactly none of those things were true there.
I will agree that there are places in the south where those things would have been true at one time, maybe even when you were growing up, although I don't know your age. But there are plenty of places where they were not true then, and even more where they are not true now.
There are places where those things are still true. On US-59, between Nacogdoches and Garrison, TX, flies the largest confederate flag that I have ever seen anywhere. I'm pretty sure that characterization would fit the guy who flies that flag. And I know other places where it probably still fits too. But to express it as the kind of all-encompassing generalization that you are making is entirely inaccurate and inappropriate.
One thing for sure, my parents' house was one place where none of those things were ever true, not even remotely close.
The real issue is that even if one disagreed with the elites, you're expected to keep that opinion to yourself.
I'd argue that someone who was politically a supporter of Barack Obama, or who publicly supported Gay rights, etc., would experience some level of business or social disapproval as a result of that.
I'd be surprised if there was a bunch of Confederate symbols being bandied about (that's just considered usually tacky), but rather just a society where virtually everyone parrots the line coming from right wing radio or if they disagree, keeps their mouths shut.
By the way, we sold most of the farm last year.
Not sure who you hung around with but I know very few Southerners of any class who are afraid of speaking their mind because of some mysterious "elite".
I think you may have it in your mind that the majority of people just can't really hold views that don't match yours...so there must be some sort of mysterious force or imbedded social convention that prevents them from thinking and speaking right....like you.
Now I know "WGAS" about personal anecdotes and they make some posters cry, but nonetheless I happen to be opposed to the death penalty....a very minority opinion. I have not ever been skeert to mention that fact in the South out of fear of "social disaproval".
You are going to have to go into some more detail about this deal because I'm real skeptical.
Try publicly supporting a liberal Democrat for office citing your support for Death Penalty repeal. You'll feel the backlash real quick. Or sponsor a Syrian refugee family in town. Or advocate that the First Baptist Church not receive taxpayer funding or support for the Minister's mansion.
Will they burn your house down? Not likely. But you'll feel it. Its subtle, but its there.
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The Death Penalty hasn't been the 'issue du jour' for the Angry White Southerners in 25 years.
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The backlash happens when you defy convention on the 'hot button issue of the day'. Or you happen to be the target of that convention.
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Again, if the South is so welcoming of others, then why does just about anyone who is different leave as soon as they can? And why don't others move there in significant numbers?
If you think the South just has a PR problem, and they really don't hate Gays, Mexicans, Transgendered persons, Blacks, Muslims, Athiests, Secularists, and Free Thinkers, then you might want to take it up with your GOP elected officials, whom seem to be doing everything possible to reinforce that perception of the Deep South.
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Either way, I have posited my opinion as to how to explain the Deep South's love of Donald Trump (over native sons and those that would, otherwise, seem to be much better matches).
It boils down to this. Trump gives White Southerners pure, raw, unadulterated anger. They don't want Mike Huckabee's smiling extremism. They don't want Rand Paul's optimistic libertarianism. They want ANGER. Anger at someone else.
And Trump gives them what they want.