Quote:My point is he's had two brushes with the law involving alcohol which may be indicative of a "problem" that needs addressing in addition to the legal consequences.
Yeah... but... man. You could say the same the other way -- like say, instead, 11 years ago he got a speeding ticket for going 5 over. Does that further mean he has a driving problem, 11 years ago for a no-big-deal speeding ticket? I dunno... I put an adult-under-21-in-possession-of-beer, when in college is like saying college-kid-fooling-around-with-girl. About as common. Actually, I wish it was As common - lol. I'd trade beer for fooling around, but I digress. I never got a minor-in-possession ticket, but about 33-40% of my friends have at one point from 17-20. And we're not talking the craziest partiers in the world -- just run of the mill WMU folk and from high school/post-high school. IMO, it's just a luck of the draw for about 75% of them.
Quote:Got my only DUI 20 years ago. I was not in the car. Because I had my keys and was close to my car, it was intent to drive.
WHAT?! They can do that? Like, you can't get cigarettes out of your car? Or a condom? Or a phone to call someone to use a condom on? That's insane!
Quote:I have never found it difficult to avoid drinking and driving. I am not a big drinker at all; in fact I'm a bit of a lightweight.
It's easier in the city, with Uber. WAY better than taxis. They get there quick, and not more expensive. Incredibly convenient. Plus, if one goes to a downtown-like place where there's pay-to-park, one nixes out the $4-$10 for parking, too. Some people though live out in the sticks, so that and taxis aren't so handy.
Quote:I love it when my wife drinks! I am always willing to drive home, and willing to go fetch more wine for her. It usually pays dividends later.
It's cute when it's a wife or GF. When it's a gal you're on a 2nd date with, her gal pals end up getting pissed. "Wait, what?! He wasn't drinking -- he just bought you drinks to get you drunk and kept piling it on saying he likes it when you drink as it pays dividends later, huh? Where did you Meat this guy?!"