(02-01-2015 07:13 AM)KnightLight Wrote: (01-31-2015 10:08 PM)Sundanceuiuc Wrote: (01-31-2015 09:50 PM)Brother Bluto Wrote: (01-31-2015 04:00 PM)MTigerBlue Wrote: I think it's a commentary on our society as a whole that we almost all preferred a slimeball used car salesman who could win big to a guy with fewer vices than any of us who can't. It's obviously true, but personally uncomfortable.
I have no issue with it whatsoever. Who is without sin can cast the first stone is my motto
I will not be casting stones as I am certainly not sinless.
I will say this here as well. We cannot know Josh Pastner has no real vices / problems. His public persona in very clean, but that doesn't guarantee a life lived well.
I want to be very clear, I don't suspect Josh Pastner has major skeletons (I do not think he has really that many minor ones), but we are limited just by being human beings. Really wish we didn't deify people who have pristine public personas. I guarantee Pastner, just like all of us, has done/said things he regrets. This would not make him a bad person BTW, just human, like the rest of us.
I don't say that to cast doubt on his goodness, but rather to make sure that people understand that if something ever comes out about Pastner, not to hang him immediately out of personal disappointment.
Just thought this was a good place to say that. I will continue to assume Pastner is a great guy, but I refuse to take it as a 100% article of faith nor to make it a primary determination on how advantageous it is to have him at the helm...
But you did just that.
You just went into the
Stick to talking about basketball coaching...and worry much less what Pastner has done and/or is doing in his private life as that's just creepy and extremely unfair to him or his family.
Dammit. Just dammit.
OK, look. I SAID I assume Josh Pastner is a good as his public persona. I just wish that people would:
A. Not promote it as fact, since few here have met him and
B. More importantly not use it to defend his tenure against those who think he hasn't won enough.
I am just playing Devi's advocate b/c I am increasingly sick of people who feel his tenure should come to an end being castigated for not supporting 'a good guy' when he is hired to be a basketball coach. I'm in favor of retaining him past this year, but I weary of this being a reason. Personal goodness does not equate to professional competency.
I continue to think (and strongly suspect in light of ZERO evidence to the contrary that I am aware of) that Josh Pastner is a capital human being. If you took anything else from my post, then I sincerely and deeply apologize for being unclear or hard to read.
But creepy to say this? It's far creepier to constantly have his 'factually inherent goodness' color conversations about the quality of his basketball coaching. It speaks to a holding up a man on a personal standard that might be impossible for anyone to achieve.
Clearly I have phrased this poorly in some manner since this post has called me creepy. But re-read the post we both quoted by MTigerBlue
(01-31-2015 04:00 PM)MTigerBlue Wrote: I think it's a commentary on our society as a whole that we almost all preferred a slimeball used car salesman who could win big to a guy with fewer vices than any of us who can't. It's obviously true, but personally uncomfortable.
Who gets the right to assume what vices the rest of mt.org has or hasn't? I am willing to bet CJP has fewer vices than me, in fact I'd put money on it. I drink and curse (alot!), but I feel I am still a pretty decent guy and people who have met me would (hopefully) back that up. But CJP has fewer vices than all our posters?
That simply doesn't ring true.
And more importantly, it doesn't ring
relevant
>
The day has come where simply stating there can be a disconnect in public persona and private life is 'libel' and 'creepy', whereas telling us all that 'good guy' beats 'winning', when the job is winning is ok.
Unreal.
I quit, I really do.
(BTW, still think Josh Pastner is a good dude for those keeping score).
Dammit.