(01-17-2015 10:51 PM)AndreWhere Wrote: Interesting that you feel that way, Fist. I'll have to think about that.
I'll open up and give you a personal tidbit of insight.....and it's my most painful and best lesson about playing sports as a youth....
Dixie Youth baseball.....I am 10 yrs old....I bat clean-up in a 9-12 year age group....and I was only average size at that time....
I'm in a batting slump over a handful of games.....
my brain snaps mid-game.....it's my turn to bat.....nobody can find me.....I just walked away.....and had no clue where I was going....
It's easily the most embarrassing moment of my life.....
Coach had me apologize to the team before I could come back....(I'm leaving out the conversation he and I had before that moment....yeah, I was crying tears of many shades)
again, I was 10, and was viewed as a team leader playing with 11 and 12 yr olds.....it defined the moment that I knew I was human, defined the purest of weakness, and taught me the definition of humility.....
you learn a lot being involved in athletics at a young age......and I played 'em all
I can't imagine doing that at 20.....mill obviously never learned that lesson....that I can deal with....Doc flip-flopping? I cannot!
when you get dumped or you do the dumping.....you don't go back at that age....you only look like a pu$$y at that point....Doc looks worse.....
as always, it's only one opinion.....