(06-20-2014 12:11 PM)VA49er Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 12:03 PM)tigerjaws Wrote:  They don't want the man.....just his wallet

Have to watch out for the ones that just want green card.

My first thought as well. Happened to a friend of mine with some Russian chick. He thought he was set, ready to start and new life and *poof*. Really hit him hard.

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:43 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:41 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Did you really type that?

Yep...random hook ups aren't a real relationship...That was fun when I was 18-21 in college...but there comes a point when you grow up and want something real.

Have you read any of this thread. You just make stuff up and accuse me of a made up moral crime.

I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:43 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  Yep...random hook ups aren't a real relationship...That was fun when I was 18-21 in college...but there comes a point when you grow up and want something real.

Have you read any of this thread. You just make stuff up and accuse me of a made up moral crime.

I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:43 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:41 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Did you really type that?

Yep...random hook ups aren't a real relationship...That was fun when I was 18-21 in college...but there comes a point when you grow up and want something real.

Have you read any of this thread. You just make stuff up and accuse me of a made up moral crime.

I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Wow...you seem very upset.

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Have you read any of this thread. You just make stuff up and accuse me of a made up moral crime.

I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

Yeah, people never make an error, right? lol

Such anger...

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:49 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:43 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:41 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:36 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  life is more than a "fu<k buddie" in their 20s...that doesn't sound like paradise to me.

Did you really type that?

Yep...random hook ups aren't a real relationship...That was fun when I was 18-21 in college...but there comes a point when you grow up and want something real.

Have you ever been divorced or separated after a decade long, plus, marriage?

You go wild before you settle in.

That's none of your business, sorry.

Shyeah, I didn't think so... So you have no idea what it's like.

(06-20-2014 01:57 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

Yeah, people never make an error, right? lol

Such anger...

So angry that I am booking another fabulous resort in July for more laying around the beach, drink rum, and having sex.

(06-20-2014 12:41 PM)nomad2u2001 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 12:33 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 11:30 AM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  So since I got divorced last summer, then sold my house and moved, I started focusing on dating again. Pretty much what is available, long term, is ....suburban divorced with 2 kids 37 and older. (I am in my 40's). Just not interested in that and being a step dad (Real Dad should be Dad), but a f k buddy deal is ok. Since younger girls check me out I like that but the minute they know how old I am that is a deal killer.

So I joined a latin american dating site and it has been a grand slam. I spent 5 days in Punta Cana with a 26 year old Dominican girl, and we could not have had a better time. She is much different than a typical american girl, really sweet, fun, down to earth, very sexy and romantic.
I am going to go back there next month, same drill beach resort, and then have her come visit me for a week. If all goes well the plan is to get her to usa full time.

Any of you guys ever consider international dating?

Jeez, chicks are right...guys really are pigs.

Oink, oink b!tches

(06-20-2014 01:58 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:49 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:43 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:41 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Did you really type that?

Yep...random hook ups aren't a real relationship...That was fun when I was 18-21 in college...but there comes a point when you grow up and want something real.

Have you ever been divorced or separated after a decade long, plus, marriage?

You go wild before you settle in.

That's none of your business, sorry.

Shyeah, I didn't think so... So you have no idea what it's like.

That's none of your business, sorry.

(06-20-2014 01:59 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:57 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

Yeah, people never make an error, right? lol

Such anger...

So angry that I am booking another fabulous resort in July for more laying around the beach, drink rum, and having sex.

I'm sure you are.

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:50 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Have you read any of this thread. You just make stuff up and accuse me of a made up moral crime.

I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

For some reason, this song always reminds me of the one that got away, I guess because she's Asian... Don't be that guy that lets a good one go...

(06-20-2014 02:01 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

For some reason, this song always reminds me of the one that got away, I guess because she's Asian... Don't be that guy that lets a good one go...

Jeez, get out a gallon of ice cream and put on a ryan gosling movie, already...

Memphis are you married to,

(06-20-2014 02:02 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 02:01 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

For some reason, this song always reminds me of the one that got away, I guess because she's Asian... Don't be that guy that lets a good one go...

Jeez, get out a gallon of ice cream and put on a ryan gosling movie, already...

That's some beautiful music... It's relaxing to me, not depressing.

(06-20-2014 01:13 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 12:59 PM)nomad2u2001 Wrote:  I've been all over the Caribbean and been to Brazil, I've had my fun. The asian chicks also always had a thing for me. Never found much satisfaction in one-nighters or fk buddies, though I did it anyway for a few years.

Ended up with an Indian girl from T&T. One of the struggles of dating an unfamiliar culture is the fact that sometimes social cues are different. You can't necessarily read what they're thinking by body language. Also, her family is going to come first. If you take her away from home, there are going to be semi-long periods of melancholy where she'll miss being with them and they may feel jealous of you taking her away.

Also, you should remember that a lot of international women are down to earth until you get them into an American house, in an American town, with American shopping malls, and other American women to shop with. Those things can change her.

With all that said, good luck and I hope that it's all that you could ever ask for.

thanks, and the first thing I said to her was about the family issue, being away from home.

There are ways around the "away from home thing" though. My wife talks on the phone or Skypes with her folks back home damn near every day. We go down there every year as well to visit. Eventually I'll pay her back by actually moving down there after we retire.

(06-20-2014 02:36 PM)VA49er Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:13 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 12:59 PM)nomad2u2001 Wrote:  I've been all over the Caribbean and been to Brazil, I've had my fun. The asian chicks also always had a thing for me. Never found much satisfaction in one-nighters or fk buddies, though I did it anyway for a few years.

Ended up with an Indian girl from T&T. One of the struggles of dating an unfamiliar culture is the fact that sometimes social cues are different. You can't necessarily read what they're thinking by body language. Also, her family is going to come first. If you take her away from home, there are going to be semi-long periods of melancholy where she'll miss being with them and they may feel jealous of you taking her away.

Also, you should remember that a lot of international women are down to earth until you get them into an American house, in an American town, with American shopping malls, and other American women to shop with. Those things can change her.

With all that said, good luck and I hope that it's all that you could ever ask for.

thanks, and the first thing I said to her was about the family issue, being away from home.

There are ways around the "away from home thing" though. My wife talks on the phone or Skypes with her folks back home damn near every day. We go down there every year as well to visit. Eventually I'll pay her back by actually moving down there after we retire.

Mine skypes all the time also.

The funny thing is about the cultural difference is that Indian mothers are involved in EVERYTHING. They'll arrange things if sh*t the children aren't moving fast enough.

Just 4 years ago her mother was hard to get along with. A few weeks ago she told me that her mom wanted to Skype with me and I was weirded out, but I did it anyway. She told me to find some guys to set her younger daughter and 2 nieces with.

They'll arrange a marriage.

(06-20-2014 11:30 AM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  So since I got divorced last summer, then sold my house and moved, I started focusing on dating again. Pretty much what is available, long term, is ....suburban divorced with 2 kids 37 and older. (I am in my 40's). Just not interested in that and being a step dad (Real Dad should be Dad), but a f k buddy deal is ok. Since younger girls check me out I like that but the minute they know how old I am that is a deal killer.

So I joined a latin american dating site and it has been a grand slam. I spent 5 days in Punta Cana with a 26 year old Dominican girl, and we could not have had a better time. She is much different than a typical american girl, really sweet, fun, down to earth, very sexy and romantic.
I am going to go back there next month, same drill beach resort, and then have her come visit me for a week. If all goes well the plan is to get her to usa full time.

Any of you guys ever consider international dating?

<--- Interracial marriage with someone who immigrated when they were young...

(06-20-2014 05:33 PM)Bull_In_Exile Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 11:30 AM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  So since I got divorced last summer, then sold my house and moved, I started focusing on dating again. Pretty much what is available, long term, is ....suburban divorced with 2 kids 37 and older. (I am in my 40's). Just not interested in that and being a step dad (Real Dad should be Dad), but a f k buddy deal is ok. Since younger girls check me out I like that but the minute they know how old I am that is a deal killer.

So I joined a latin american dating site and it has been a grand slam. I spent 5 days in Punta Cana with a 26 year old Dominican girl, and we could not have had a better time. She is much different than a typical american girl, really sweet, fun, down to earth, very sexy and romantic.
I am going to go back there next month, same drill beach resort, and then have her come visit me for a week. If all goes well the plan is to get her to usa full time.

Any of you guys ever consider international dating?

<--- Interracial marriage with someone who immigrated when they were young...

How was getting to know the family?

Get on tinder, you're welcome.

(06-20-2014 02:01 PM)LSU04_08 Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:56 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:55 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:54 PM)SuperFlyBCat Wrote:  

(06-20-2014 01:52 PM)UofMemphis Wrote:  I haven't accused you of any crime, I have simply stated my opinion on a message board.

Based on a lie, see the bolded part.

Meant to say **** buddy...cool those jets, turbo.

For some reason, this song always reminds me of the one that got away, I guess because she's Asian... Don't be that guy that lets a good one go...

asian chicks. they are american males' kryponite.

I am immune. I spent my adolescent years in the orient, so I got all of that out of my system, literally, early.